This is for all....especially parents and teachers...

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...I generally click lots of pics of Nature and post them to all my contacts. Why i do this?...Because 'We are created by Nature, we are part of the Nature, the whole universe...and we are supposed to live WITH-IT...But whereas gradually we are moving away from it with all man-made beliefs, negative social structures/issues, making us sick all the time...When we live against nature we are sure to get stressed and strained in body, mind and relationships!!...When we live with nature, as advocated by the Vedhas, we are sure to be healthy, peaceful and happy at all places and in all dimensions. So, to motivate everyone i click pics of the other elements of Nature and send to all.

Another reason is, we all force our children to excel in academics, want them to become employable etc. Sadly all the subjects we read anywhere is all about Nature...1. Physics is all about physical properties of matter in the Nature...2. Chemistry is all about chemical properties of matter in the Nature...3. Biology and related subjects are all about the living organisms...4. Geography is all about this earth which teaches and shows us the Nature around...5. History is all about the world, how we reached where we are, the past of this world, how to go about in future etc....6. Languages teach us the culture and are tools of communication...the science of communication...7. Mathematics is all about the Variables and Constants in the Nature, their dependencies and independence, the methods of finding the value of the unknown variable...!!

So, all the subjects we learn are related to our surroundings...the Nature around us. Therefore, when we love Nature, when we lose ourselves in the Nature, when we involve ourselves in observing and analysing nature, when we are interested to know about Nature, when we live with the Nature, we are sure to gain interest in studies, do well in studies, get good marks, get good jobs, learn many valuable lessons of life and living from all living organisms around us and live a peacefully, happy and healthy life!!

Remaining detached from Nature gives us diseases of the body and mind leading to spoiled relationships too. Doing well in studies, while remaining detached from Nature, just for the sake of getting good marks or good job etc is also stressful...they will always miss something...the peace... in their inner self and finally get surrendered to spiritual gurus and their organisations where they will teach them as to how to remain connected with Nature to live peacefully.

Therefore, let us always be with Nature, teach our children also how to live with Nature, how to get attached with nature, how to study the nature etc...and live naturally and not artificially!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!

THIS IS FOR ALL...ESPECIALLY FOR PARENTS AND TEACHERS...

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...ESPECIALLY FOR PARENTS AND TEACHERS...

Nature drives all human beings born on this earth towards self-actualisation from their inner self. That is, to realise their full potential, skills, talents, abilities, grow in them, become authorities in these, get appreciation and reach the state of self-actualisation!!...This is unavoidable...It is the very purpose of life!!...For all human beings!!

But sadly our 'present' culture, our parents do not know this. The marriage oriented and animal culture of ours truncate this process. They don't self actualise. They don't allow their children to self-actualise, they don't allow them to grow to their peak potentials...All these people get affected in their mind from deep within. Learned helplessness state is a state of mental illness. They will appear to be happy and peaceful on the surface but subconsciously they are living against the Nature, the natural process of development...So, their body, mind and social relationships will be stressed and strained. If they are highly intelligent then they are sure to development mental disorders and spoil the life of theirs and that of others!!...All others will also slowly and gradually land up in mild or serious mental and social issues. They will also get ailments, less immunity and related diseases and suffer.

So, let us allow ourselves and others to self actualise. Let us not stop or truncate this natural process. Educate the elders at home on this issue.

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!

THIS IS FOR ALL WHO ARE INTO RELATIONSHIPS...COMMITTED OR UNMARRIED...

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL WHO ARE INTO RELATIONSHIPS...COMMITTED OR UNMARRIED...

Animals get attached to their masters or place who/which give them food, shelter and a breeding place and environment. When they stop getting these or any of these, then they leave the master or the place and go to a new master or new place where they get their basic needs. They don't hate their old master because they don't think/analyse and do not have a mind. They are also not possessive and jealous. They don't have ego. They don't remember the past or forget the past if they get positives again. So, they don't get affected. In fact, they go back to him/or the place if they get what they need. If they stop getting again then they again leave. They are soo simple, simply live their life, because they have a very simple brain!!

Human beings are also like these animals. They go to people and places where they get their needs, wants and expectations met. They leave the people physically or mentally or socially when they stop getting what they want. But the issue is human beings get affected very badly when they leave or when the other person leaves the relationship. They develop hate if they don't get what they want. They also become possessive. They are egoistic. They remember the unpleasantness of the past. Generally they go back or don't go back when they again get what they want. Again they leave the person when their needs and expectations are not met!!

To overcome these negatives, to be not like animals...to be like human beings...to be good to all...to be unconditional...only we have been blessed with SIXTH SENSE of 'thinking'...to remain positive with all, everyone, every place, always...to overcome the hate...to overcome the possessiveness...to overcome the complicacies of the complex brain...and the complex mind formed out of it...!!

Whereas we don't understand this, live like animals...fight with people...use all kind of hate words...break-up with the relationships...and mess up the only chance we have got to enjoy this life...enjoy this world...enjoy this earth!!

Therefore, let us wake up, live like human beings, not like animals, use the sixth sense to overcome the negatives of natural possessiveness and hate, and learn to be independent while being dependent, make life long healthy relationships by teaching the other person and avoid break-ups which affect the development of children at home and our own peace, happiness and good physical, mental and social well-being!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!