"We cannot feel anything, unless there is a need for it in us!!"

 Dear all,....(please add 'she/he' wherever you find 'he' in the following)

"We cannot feel anything, unless there is a need for it in us!!"

For e.g...

All the wisdom explained by the spiritual gurus are felt by those who have a need, who had confused minds, stressed brains, who wanted clarity and who are obsessed with him!!

Those who are not obsessed or who are stable, clear in their mind, have clarity about life and living, who do not have any need, who feel that everything is alright with them, will not feel anything from the words of wisdom of the spiritual guru. They will probably gain additional knowledge or wisdom which may be useful to them. But it may not create any feelings in them as they were not in need and were not stressed!!

If we tell the same things to the spiritual guru or tell him different philosophies of wisdom, he also will not feel anything because he has no need!!...He is not obsessed with us!!...He might gain additional knowledge and wisdom but it may not create any feelings in him!!

So, if we feel something, that means, there was a need, there was probably a stress, there was a void, there was some blank space needing to be filled, there was a question without an answer in the conscious or subconsious mind, probably the question was looking for an answer, there was some confusion, there was a clarity needed on something etc....or we were obsessed with that person!!

Obsession is not good as it closes all doors of oppurtunities to learn and grow in all dimensions!!

It is better to be at neutral state than a need state!!

Positive emotions and feelings without leading to obsessions is good...as, anything beyond limits is a poison...even the excessive feeling of goodness leading to unstable body and mind!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!

THIS IS FOR THOSE HIGH INTELLIGENCE STUDENTS...(IIT, IIM AND NIT)

Dear all,

All of us, we have a BODY. It needs food (solid), water (liquids), air (gas), reproductive needs and touches (care, affection, love...emotional needs)!!

Body is from Nature and all these needs are natural, survival needs. All living organisms have these needs!! 

So, a life and living anchored only on body and body needs is called ANIMAL LIFE and ANIMAL LIVING. Animals do anything to get these. All humans also do anything to achieve these, as they are basic survival needs. When it is difficult to get these, the humans use their precious INTELLIGENCE and CREATIVITY to plan strategies, spend lots of their valuable life and brain time, energy, money and everything. They forget about the consequences. They forget about their status. They use their power and authority to get them anyhow, and by any means. They go to any low level to achieve and own them. They are ready to lose anything to possess them. It becomes an obsession and disorder. This is the power of the body needs, i.e the PLEASURE domain!!

Therefore, it is the cause for all the sorrows, tears, sadness, frustration, anger, fights, harsh words, depression, break up, divorce, all kinds of stresses and strains in relationships, loss of job, poor performance, all kinds of feelings of rejection...simply all kinds of negatives of life!!!!!!!!!

So, these needs to be kept low and the body in a cool, calm, balanced, stable, healthy and in a less need state!!

But all of us have a brain and mind ruled by SIXTH SENSE. It seeks knowledge. It is thirsty of wisdom. It is hungry of skills, potential and achievements. It is eager to know about the things around. It is anxious to go around, meet new people, experience new things and keen to learn. It is adventurous to fathom the oceans, explore the space and beyond and reach the centre of the earth. It wants to find answers for many unknowns like origin of life, origin of universe and what-not...i.e the HAPPINESS domain...also called as Anandha and such other synonyms!!

All these can happen only when the body is calm and does not disturb the brain. The body does not force the mind to plan strategies and plans to achieve the body needs. The body is calm and allows the mind to use all the intelligence and creativity to indulge and lose itself in the knowledge, wisdom, skill development, experiential learning and adventurous life!!

This is very important, especially for the HIGH INTELLIGENCE people as they have the ingredients to achieve all the above. But, sadly, many of such students live a sedentary life and therefore their body needs are very high and they end up using all their brain time, precious life time, intelligence and creativity in planning strategies and executing them to attain their body needs. They also skip their meals, have food at irregular times, eat all the junk, smoke, booze, live on drugs and end up using the precious gifted potential in wasteful things, fail in life in all domains, feel a void and vacuum, get depressed and come for counselling!!

So, all high IQ students, wake up!!...Kill those body needs, live a health enhancing life pitching it on happiness, rather than pleasures and win in life in all the domains!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!

THIS IS FOR ALL TEACHERS AND PROFESSORS......

 Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL TEACHERS AND PROFESSORS...

Any one in teaching profession can sustain the PASSION for teaching only if he or she considers himself or herself as a STUDENT all the time for entire life!!...And without the PASSION FOR TEACHING, one cannot be peaceful and happy as a TEACHER or PROFESSOR!!!

Be a STUDENT infront of other PROFESSORS. Be a PROFESSOR infront of the STUDENTS!!!

- Captain (IN). Dr. Prof. M.

Ramasubramanian

B.Sc (AS)., M.Sc., M.Tech., MBA., PhD (Elec. Engg)., PhD (Psy)

Indian Institute of Management Kashipur.

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simple funda of life....

 Dear all,

Life is probably only once!...Let us put in efforts to live long!...For this, our body is important and we can not afford to lose it!...Let us live happily and peacefully!!...For this, we should be free from pain in the body and mind!...So, we need to keep the body away from diseases and mind away from disorders. So, let us follow a health enhancing style of eating healthy, exercising, reading, keeping knowledge and wisdom as the fulcrum of life. For this, adapting to the changes around in a health enhancing way towards improvement is important!!...Have a good day!!

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"Sir, many say 'Be what you are and who you are!!'...you say 'Have global adaptability!'....which one is right?"

 Dear all,

One Question...One Answer....

Qn. "Sir, many say 'Be what you are and who you are!!'...you say 'Have global adaptability!'....which one is right?"

Ans. The answer is very simple. We have got just one life with limited validity. We don't know when the heart which is ticking right now on our left side will stop. So, let us endeavour to live long...Let us endeavour to live young till the last breathe!!...Let us also endeavour to enjoy the life through health enhancing life style so that we enjoy, live long and remain young!...If we follow health compromising life style then we will get diseases of the body and disorders of the mind that will bring pain. So, we can not enjoy the life!!

'Be what you are and who you are!!' is mostly related to our personality traits, belief systems, morals, values, ethics etc. There are about 840 personality traits with almost about 250 plus health enhancing positive traits, 250 plus health compromising negative traits and about 250 plus neutral traits. 

'Be what you are and who you are!!'....if this has more of negative health compromising traits, beliefs, morals, values and ethics then we are sure to have life style diseases, mental disorders and relationship issues. So, we will be suffering in our 'Be what you are and who you are!!'.

So, to live long, young and enjoy the life let us change a bit to remove all the negatives and bring in the positives!!...If we are rigid with respect to 'Be what you are and who you are!!' then we will suffer in diseases, disorders and loneliness, as people will leave us physically or mentally or emotionally!!

Also, today education and work occupy most of our daily life time and both are global. So, to win in both these domains...to win in family life...to win in all our relationships...to win in totality...it  is important that we become flexible towards health enhancing global life styles, traits, morals, values and ethics. So, global adaptability is a must to enjoy the entire earth and world that is created for us!!

Also, most of the memes and various facebook and whatsapp messages are created by people like us who are born, brought up, soaked and drenched in our TV Serial life style and culture...so no wonder they create all such wrong, false, incorrect memes and shares. So, let us use our common sense and follow only those which give health enhancing life!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!

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Let us understand the life....

 Dear all,

Everyone is talking about economic development all over the world. The drive is for this. The government machinery, entire corporate world and all the B schools are thinking and innovating all the methods to drive the economy, boost the economy, make India an economic superpower etc. Every country is in this mission of economic development.

Economic development can take place only when money flows and rotates freely in the market without getting stagnated. So, everyone is aiming at making people to spend money in buying products and services. More and more attractive services and products at affordable prices with wide varieties and less life time are getting generated.

Everyone wants to study psychology to motivate humans to earn more, spend more and get addicted more!!

They are creating more and more needs and wants of human beings. They are creating a situation that only if you have that product or use that service, you can be alive, happy, peaceful, survive and do any routine life activity also. Also a hype that only if you have that or use it, you will get a social identity among peer groups or society.

The end result is everyone is going mad, working like machines, to earn more and more, to spend more, to buy more, to use more. They are doing jobs which they don't like or not interested in doing. So, no creativity and without creativity no organization or employee can remain in the market in the exponentially increasing competition.   Therefore, they get thrown out. Lose jobs. More and more agony and misery in life. High stress levels in all domains of life. Diseases in body! Disorders in mind!! Strained relationships everywhere!!...The medical industry flourishes boosting the economy!!

What are we up to?

To create a world full of patients or want to make the earth a burial ground??

All the products and services in this world are created mostly for human beings. Only if we buy, there is a market for them!!

We need to understand the funda of life very clearly.

This is probably the only conscious life with limited time on this earth for all of us. We are here to live long, enjoy, be happy and be peaceful.

This is possible only if we are without disease and disorders. Because these two will give us pain and we cannot enjoy the life!!

So, we should not get in that whirlpool explained above.

I am not against economic development. But it should be through ethical means and through health enhancing products and services. Not by unethical, immoral and through health compromising methods, products and services!!

So, let us wake up and pursue simple living, aligned with Nature, and support only health enhancing lifestyle, products and services!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!

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Even those with low IQ can excel in life, grow in career ladder, retain their jobs...how?

Dear all,

All of us are born with different IQ. Does it mean only those with High IQ can shine in life? Only they can excel and reach high positions or retain their jobs?

No!!

Others with low IQ also can!!

There are many jobs wherein honesty, trustworthiness, truthfulness, financial integrity, following the Standard Operating Procedures (SOPs) meticulously, hard working ability are important. These can be done by low/average IQ people also.

So, there are jobs where the personality traits are more important than the IQ.

There are jobs where Emotional Intelligence and Spiritual Intelligence are important.

If we select those jobs, then we can retain the jobs and also excel in our career.

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!

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