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hai friends...how are we?

Fear!...a familiar word for us…because we constantly live with fear either consciously or unconsciously. A part of our brain is always under fear…

Our gods are scary to look at…with all blood stained weapons, tiger, lion, tongue out, many hands, and what not!!!...so we are scared of our gods!...during child hood I used to get scared about the big god statues on the outskirts of villages shown in movies…my daughter once requested me to remove the photo of a god from her room as she is scared to look, to remain in that room or to sleep there…even after removal of the photo she said the picture comes in the dreams and scare her!

The faith or feelings or all that we have towards our gods are out of fear!...

 

parents also scare us ‘if you don’t do this or if you are not living like this, then god will punish you!’…i don’t think there is any one in any village in whose dreams those scary gods at the entrance of the village have not come…mostly anyone who has reported having seen god in dreams, only describes having seen god with anger and scary features!...

 

once god came in a lady’s dream and has told all bad things for her and her children…does any god think bad for her creations?...it was found that she had typhoid some time back and since then gods have been appearing in dreams and telling only bad things for every one…after she was treated with medicine she wondered if she ever said like that…

So, god appears in the minds of the feared and when god appeared in dreams we feared.

There are also physiological changes of anxiety, elevated happiness, exclamations, unable to think, too emotional, etc. So we go to a state of imbalance. In an unstable state cognition does not happen. So, we go out of reality, we do many things without our consciousness.

Our people are also scared about people in powerful positions, administrators and all people with authority at organizations (bosses), society and at home (elders)…those top people also want to create a fear…a ‘nuisance value’… all these people say ‘nammalai paathha makkalukku manasuley oru bhayam irukkanumdaa!’...means ‘people should have a sense of fear when they think about us!’…the same goes everywhere…in society, organizations, at home…parents say ‘children should be scared about their parents!’…teachers also say ‘students should have fear of their teachers!’…I don’t know who created this ‘spare the rod, spoil the child!’

Fear starts from child hood…we are scared about parents at home…a young mother who feeds the infant fears it by saying ‘if you don’t eat I will give you to bhooth!’…we are scared about teachers at school…professors at colleges…scared about husband (!!!)…some are scared about wives too!...scared about dangerous people in society…scared about people In power…scared about bosses…scared about gods…scared about pollution, nature, scarcity of natural resources…woffff! We have created a scary world…scary future…scary culture…the fear of unknown!...news papers are full of all types of news that scares people in all dimentions…why?...why?...why??????

 

We all know that fear is a negative emotion…it does more bad than good…any good created also gets nullified with the bad it has created in mind which is not visible to us!...fear limits ones potential…creativity, the most important thing required now and in future!...it limits one’s ability to be happy…to be healthy…to be successful…a person with fear dies every second.

Then how it should have been?...

All gods should be loving to look at…as god is a symbol of love…any one should be happy to dream about any god (instead of actors!)…all parents should be a good symbol of love…children can be corrected with positive effects through love…ahimsa…and gandhian ways…parents should be good friends…it is a wrong notion that children can be corrected only through fears…when children fear about parents, when parents are not their good friends, they tend to ask their friends, who are equally clueless, about love, sex, dressing, partying and such other issues about which parents are worried but they are unable to do anything. Any child which is grown under fear and control, wants to breath freedom and so runs away from parents as early as possible to hostels or taking a job far away or get married and fly away.

When teachers are good friends, brother, sister etc with loving character, students get closeness to them, clarify their doubts, discuss the problems they have in understanding and they live in the minds of students for ever. The same thing happens when the administrators, bosses, people in power show love to their subordinates / citizens. Feeling of love and friendliness creates more positive effects than that produced by the fear effect.

So, let us not fear about all that said above and not fear others.

Let us only love everything and everyone…let the love spread…positive thinking (cognition) spread…positive emotions spread (affection)…positive behaviours spread (conation)…

Once this happens every one on this earth only will spread happiness, good health and success…radiate innocent intelligent love!

keep rocking guys and gals!

rams