When there is no expectation of 'Feeling of Acceptance' then there is no scope for the 'Fear of Rejection'!!!

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...

Mostly, all of us, look for acceptance of ourselves by the others in the family, in whatsapp groups, amidst friends, in the class room etc...we are emotionally weak that we always want appreciation, words of encouragement, identity, image...our fear based culture also makes ourselves like this that we are emotionally weak...we want always to get noticed, appreciated, noted that we are different.....so we keep indulging in activities which are not natural...which are artificial...to impress others..it is stressful...mentally, physically and socially...

So, when we feel neglected, do not get the words of praise, then we don't get that feeling of acceptance...then we get a feeling of rejection...which makes us to get depressed, demotivated, dull, unhappy, sick etc.

If we are emotionally strong, if we can appreciate our work, our own-selves, if we keep ourselves confident, happy, if we are expanding every day, in a calculated and planned way, surpassing our own work every day...then we will not look for people to appreciate our work, our personality, our qualifications or our power or authority or fame etc...

so, if only we can over come that feeling of acceptance from every one around at every place, through our attachment to wisdom, nature, self analysis, self acceptance etc then we will never feel rejection from our loved ones....from our organisations...from our family members...from our whatsapp groups...etc etc...

then life becomes a celebration always....every moment...

we will not fight with anyone...

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist....