When will this country become a Super Power??

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...

When will this country become a Super Power??

In this country people generally respect others based on the job/work/profession they do!!

In general they respect only those with money, wealth, power, authority and social status, mainly due to fear value...and of course, usefullness value too!...

Here, there is also a segregation of 'while collar jobs' and 'mean jobs'...people of the second category are not respected and treated worst than their pet animals at home!!

I think this country can become a super power in any category, but a real and true super power it can become only when the culture here changes to "respect all human beings irrespective of their profession, language they speak, their economical condition, religion, caste, education and social status"!!!...

What is the point in India becoming a super power, if one human being does not know the value of other human beings and relationships, and does not respect the other human being??...

Peacefully yours....Rams....Psychologist!!☘☘

THIS IS FOR ALL PARENTS WHO ARE LOOKING FOR MATCHES FOR THEIR CHILDREN....

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL PARENTS WHO ARE LOOKING FOR MATCHES FOR THEIR CHILDREN....

During olden days the house was both working and living place for both the spouse and children. The relatives of parents and children were same. The life styles, beliefs, culture, needs and wants, expectations between people of same caste or religion or sub caste were same.

Today the working and living place of each member in family is different. The life style of every member in a family is different. The relatives or significant of people of parents are not same as that of children. The life styles, culture, defintion of family, marriage, profession, life, living, relationships, rearing children...life styles, beliefs, faiths etc of every person in each family, caste, religion, sub caste are different...so, caste and religion are only on paper...if you think that 'a person of this religion or caste will have this belief, faith, life style' etc then you are likely to get disappointed!!...

Therefore, traditional life does not exist anymore...and it is not possible in an achievement, career and profession centric world of today and in future...therefore, everything needs to be redefined accordingly...one has to change in all domains...changing in only one and not in others, will only lead to failures in all domains of life!!..

Peacefully yours...Rams....Psychologist!!💐

THIS IS FOR ALL GOD FEARING PEOPLE!!

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL GOD FEARING PEOPLE!!

It is a good social image and a social identity in our country!!...God fearing person is expected to be a good human being!!...So, we advocate being a 'god fearing' person!!...Many act as if they are God Fearing!!

Truly fear is negative. We should not be 'God Fearing'. We should be 'God Loving'. God does not want us to fear. God wants us to be brave, strong and mentally healthy!!

Those who felt 'fearing' will make a person not to do wrong things and remain to be a good human being'...those 'negative motivation' believers...and those who were cunning to make people weak and exploit them by using 'god's name' were the two kinds who spread this!!

God is there everywhere and we are continously being watched. So, god need not appear infront of us, for us to get alert, 'appear' to be god fearing, to show our 'respect', and behave inhumanly and wrongly later!!...Hiding our other side, hiding the cigaratte behing the back types, bending forward and showing fear in eyes and body gestures does not make god happy and satisfied!!

God wants us to be 'his image' on earth, because god can't be present in human form everywhere, to every one...so he likes and supports only those who are his images on earth!!

'Love' means 'unconditional care and support'...'respect' means 'responsibility'!

So, if you really love and respect god, then show unconditional care and support to all...if you want to resepect god then be a good human being as per God's definition and be responsible to yourself, all living and non living on earth in the Nature.

It is soooo simple....so, let us not complicate life and living with God Fearing Philosophy!!

Simple Common Sense is enough to understand this!!...Don't get cheated by the 'God Fearing' philosophers!!

this philosophy holds good for all those whom you love...your parents, your lover, your spouse, your children, your friends, your siblings....if you really love them, and respect them and your relationship with them and their relationship with you, then show 'unconditional care and support and be responsible to yourself, the relationship and others'

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!

never be serious emotionally, be serious and get lost in it only functionally....

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...

In life, never be serious emotionally, it is stressful and damaging...be serious and get lost in it only functionally, with an aim to learn, then you are sure to win, while keeping good health in tact!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!

pets can never make us sad...they will never allow us to remain sad...!!

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...

For peace and happiness every moment in life...have your life filled and surrounded by unconditional sources of love...

1. have more pets at home...even a simple coconut shell filled with some road side sand with some coriander seeds put inside and little drops of water every day will germinate and produce your lovely, little, beautiful friends...you can keep growing new friends every day...without any effort at all...

2. develop relationships with them...

3. trees are sure good friends for life time...neem tree...banyan tree...peepal tree...

4. pets can never make us sad...they will never allow us to remain sad...!!

5. a spoiled day by any means can be made happy and encouraing by pets...

6. Anything other than human beings are sure to make great pets...Human beings also can make, but real good human beings only!!

7. Moon, sun, stars, clouds, breeze....all add up to the list of pets...and lovers!!

8. All these are realities and not fantasies and imaginaries...they are truly interacting but we realise it only when we strike a relationship with them and realise their interaction with us!!

9. All unconditional loves are free and available in abundance and easily...all conditional loves are costly and not available so easily and damaging!!

Wish you a 'pet'ty life full of pets surrounding you always and anywhere!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!

We are not designed for short term relationships...

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...ESPECIALLY STUDENTS....

Our movies...TV serials...the lives of our immediate predecessors...is fullllllllllllllllll of 'STRATEGIES'!!!

Their minds were/are always thinking strategies thinking, planning, every move, depending upon the move of the other people...especially with those significant people in their lives...inside homes...with friends and relatives...motives...motives...motives...all towards meeting their needs, wants and expectations...mind remains always occupied with anxiety...stressed...curiosity also adds to stress...

fears...feeling of insecurities...all these cause this bad habit...

sadly it is a culture here...from epics...wrong understanding of epics...

The college students also copy the same from all the above sources and do STRATEGIES in RELATIONSHIPS and fail MISERABLY...in overall reality of life...

Strategies in relationships is a big spoiler!!...It can only fetch short term relationships...bad karma...you only add endless 'bads' in your life...

We are not designed for short term relationships...we are not designed for conditional relationships...we are designed by nature for unconditional and long term relationships and sixth sense is given for the same...sadly we don't know this and spoil our peace, happiness, health and success...

So, the crux is...

1. Strategies in relationships will lead to break-up at some domain or the other. Be simple, straight forward...don't act...don't manipulate...don't project...don't put up false hopes and fantasies...be on reality foot...be what you are...who you are...don't put up a show of 'socially acceptable behaviours'...

2. Strategies might make you win for small and short term happiness, pleasure, a mirage of being successful, achieved etc, but truly you will become a psycho patient one day!!

3. Emotions are strong players of mental health. So, playing with emotions of others and self, will only lead to damage of the self and others.

4. Make a happy, healthy, long term relationships...A Human being's longevity of life, happiness, peace, health and success is in not the number of relationships...not the short term relationships...the secret remains in good, long term relationships!!

5. Don't follow movies, tv serials and your immediate predecessors...and don't learn negatives from epics!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!

Help good people and buy them!!

Dear all....THIS IS FOR ALL...

Don't hesitate in helping good people.

Don't do calculations in helping good people.

Because, when you help a good human being, you are actually buying that person!!...Buying for life time!!...Buying some one's life time is actually a true buying, which the other person can not get it back!!

They may not be able to help you back always...in everything...but surely they will be a good support and certainly no nuisance value will come from their side...

In today's world getting true, long lasting relationships is very difficult, as relationships have become easy and fast!!...far too many choices than a human mind or brain or heart can handle, keeping good mental health and social well-being in place!!

So, therefore...

1. Identify good human beings and buy them by helping them.

2. Make long lasting life time relationships with them.

3. Teach the bad people about this philosophy. Certainly strategists in relationships are not good human beings!!..They are people with wrong learning and disorders due to this, needing therapies to make them unlearn and cure them, and this curing is not your job, as you might endanger and waste your precious life!!

Peacefully yours....Rams...Psychologist!!