About romance...

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Romance…hmmm…the most important thing in life to complete the basic purpose. What is romance?...all behaviours that lead to attraction of opposite sexes and reproduction. If there was no romance on earth, then no reproduction. Living organisms would have become extinct. Without romance life is dull. Relationship between husband and wife becomes incomplete. Romance adds taste to the living and without it life is tasteless. It is not possible to imagine or state the ‘romanceless life or living’ without experiencing it personally.

Is there any girl who would like to marry a guy with whom she does not experience romantic feelings?...is there any boy who will marry a girl with whom he does not experience romantic feelings?...the most dreadful words that a husband or wife can hear from their spouse would be ‘I don’t get aroused by seeing you or by being with you!’….’you have lost the romance value!’…every one wants to hear from their spouse ‘You are highly romantic!!’…It gives a feeling of acceptance and when we don’t feel romantic with our spouse then both feel a deep sense of feeling of rejection leading to frustration, longing for the feeling of acceptance in life etc.

One among the subtle problems of old age is loss of romantic value to the other person. They try to compensate it with lots of  love and affection through other behaviours, but it does not match as both are two different entities and needs of life.

Men generally get romantic from the appearance of girls. Girls get romantic by experiencing the personality behaviours of the boys. A least percentage of people / occasions men get romantic by experiencing the behaviours of girls and girls rarely experience romantic only by the appearance of men. If romantic behaviours do not emanate from personality behaviours, then the resultant reproductive behaviour is just only animalistic, lasts only for a short time till the act is done.

So, the crux is…1. It is important for both girls and boys to keep their appearance beautiful / handsome throughout life to retain the romance value through exercises for body and mind, good eating habits, healthy life styles and nurturing relationships…2. Retain the cuteness through behaviours even during middle and old age, as appearance gets lost but behaviours can be permanent….

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