Is god there??

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL THOSE WHO KEEP TALKING AND FIGHTING ABOUT PRESENCE OR ABSENCE OF GOD!!

Some say god is there. Some say not there. Some give their own ideologies and definitions.

At the time of birth we are all unique with respect to this issue...there is no difference...even though by default we are all born in some religion with its own beliefs, at the time of birth, they are all only on paper, as for as we are concerned...The differences in beliefs do not affect us!!

Only during the growth process we are all taught differently about gods by people and society around, or we learn with our own experience and form our own beliefs about god.

None of them is wrong. All these beliefs are right to those concerned individuals, as long as they have made them noble human beings, helped them to live peacefully, happily, healthily (in body and mind), harmoniously with all human beings around everywhere without any negative thoughts, feelings and behaviours.

If their convictions and beliefs have not given this to them, then it is not true or correct or right for them. They need to rethink about it. Otherwise, their religion might live, but they may not live long and peacefully!!

What i can make out is that every one has some set of beliefs. Some name them as God. Some give even name to that God. Some name them differently. Some may not give any name also.
That is all the difference!!

Obviously depending upon their belief above, they have other rituals or way of living or culture or other definitions of life and living, form their rights and wrong, true and false, correct and incorrect.

Every one gets annoyed when they hear a different concept from others. No one wants to change their belief. Every one is right in their own perspective and experience. Every one tries to prove and convince the other that he or she is right, but other person is unable to accept or not ready to accept.

Every one is emotionally and obsessively attached to their beliefs!!

This becomes an issue only when one tries to force or convince other person to follow his or her beliefs, especially in a family environment or a relationship environment. Once we know the above facts, accept people as they are with their beliefs, allow them to live as per their beliefs, respect their beliefs the way they respect our beliefs, accept the differences that it is Natural, as every one is born, grown and experienced differently in life, pitch the life and relationships beyond these differences, understand that people and relationships are more important than the beliefs, understand that Humanism is more important than all other 'isms', then there is no issue!!

For a peaceful and harmonious living, understanding all the above is important!!

Peacefully yours...rams...psychologist!!