THIS IS FOR ALL THOSE WHO ARE ABOVE 40 YEARS....

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL THOSE WHO ARE ABOVE 40 YEARS...

We get born here. We keep growing from infant...to a baby...to a child...to an early adolescent...to a middle adolescent...to a late adolescent...to a young adult (18 to 25)...to an early adult (20 to 40)...to a middle adult (40 to 60)...to a late adult (60 to 80)...old age (>80)...During this process our body undergoes lots of internal and external changes...This changes our definitions of life...the way we look at life...people...the relationships...the world ....

Every age brings in a marked change in our thoughts, feelings and behaviours or activities.

In general, if we observe the difference...if i have to explain in one line...I feel there are only five stages...

1. Infant
2. Childhood (upto 13)
3. Reproductive age (13 to 40...or 45)
4. Childhood (>40 or 45)
5. Infant (>80)

THE REVERSAL OF AGE TAKES PLACE!!

Children are generally happy, enjoy freedom, create their own world, live their life more with Nature, and see all relationships same. They are unconditional. They are almost Gods.

During the reproductive age we produce children, feel responsible and sink in the gamut of grooming, mentoring and guiding acts of responsibility, making the children responsible and growing. We feel more worried and anxiety struck!!

Once they grow up, once we are in the decline of reproductive ability or free of responsibilities then the reversal of age and stage takes place.

We again become...we should become...CHILDREN!

And enjoy the life like the way children enjoy their life...free from worries...may be we can go to schools...play with children...enjoy being with them...as we are also of the same mentality or attitude...

we should be also feeling like children...but the society expects us to feel aged...to feel old...which is not good for physical and mental health...we will age faster, we will become old faster...we will get ailments, pains, diseases faster!!

NO WONDER, ALL THOSE WHO HAVE CROSSED 40 GET OBESE AND GET ALL SORTS OF AILMENTS AND DISEASES OF BODY AND MIND!!

After 80 we become like infants...can't remember anything...become weak...we need help of others for even the basic chores...we can't see...we can't taste...we can't speak...we can't walk...we wet the bed...we defecate on bed...we are exactly infants!!

The periods of ages and stages given above change little here and there for different people depending upon their food and life style. By and large, the changes occur at that age.

So, the crux is...

1. We are infants at the beginning
2. Till we reach 13 we are children.
3. After we attain age and become reproductive we become responsible adults.
4. After we lose the ability of reproductive power we again become children.
5. Then we become infants again.

THEREFORE, EVERYONE WHO HAS CROSSED 40 OR 45, FEEL YOU ARE A CHILD AND ENJOY THE LIFE!!...DON'T GET BURIED IN WORRIES AND OLD AGE THOUGHTS, FEELINGS AND BEHAVIOURS, AS EXPECTED BY THE SOCIETY!!....FEEL YOUNG, ENERGETIC, HAVE LEARNING ATTITUDE LIKE CHILDREN, CREATING YOUR OWN REAL AND FANTASY WORLD OF HAPPINESS, HOME, FAMILY, ENJOY REALIZING THE CHILDHOOD DREAMS, PASSIONS AND GOALS (AS YOU HAVE MONEY AND BECOME INDEPENDENT NOW)!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!