Girls need to be shy, innocent and timid only under safe social environments...i.e only at home...

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL GIRLS AND PARENTS...

In olden days the girls were shy and innocent. Of course, they did not know anything due to lack of scope for moving out of the home for education and jobs. They were mostly domestic servants and nursing people to keep the house and surroundings clean and meet all the physical, mental and social needs of those at home. Before marriage they did this at parental house and after marriage they did this at in-law's house.

Today, all those old men who see women as above, keep blaming the change in culture and the girls that they are not shy, timid and innocent like their wife or sisters or mother.

But in today's world such girls will get easily cheated and exploited. Thankfully the social dynamics between boys and girls in schools and colleges also revolve around equality which is healthy. In this atmosphere a girl has to be bold, assertive to say "NO" when required without hesitation, be intelligent, and be like a boy in thinking, feelings and behaviours, but be innocent and girly at the required safe moments of life or life situations e.g at home with the husband, siblings or with parents. She should not be shy, timid and innocent all the time, everywhere, with everyone, and all life situations. Then she is sure to get exploited and abused.

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!