THIS IS FOR ALL...ESPECIALY THE TEENAGERS AND EARLY TWENTIES... What is Love?

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...ESPECIALY THE TEENAGERS AND EARLY TWENTIES...

What is Love?

UNCONDITIONAL CARING AND SUPPORTING.

Caring means health enhancing thoughts, feelings and behaviours in us that will ensure good mental, physical and social well-being of the other person.

Supporting means positive health enhancing thoughts, feelings and behaviours in us that will help development of positive health enhancing skills, knowledge, wisdom, personality traits and life style in the other person to realise his or her dreams, passion, goal or aim or purpose or interest etc that are health enhancing.

Love is mutual and not one way traffic. The above definition may be ideal. Yes...it is difficult, but not impossible!!

This is what is true, pure and divine love that can sustain for entire life, beyond the changes in appearance, wants, needs, expectations and personality traits.

Filmy love or physical attraction that comes at any age with fantasies and thoughts, feelings and behaviours not matching with reality is not love...It is a nature driven maya for procreation.

The above is unavoidable as long as we have the BODY.

If only the body is made self-regulating with food habits and other life style elements that can free or ease the mind, then one can easily experience LOVE!!...That is UNCONDITIONAL CARING AND SUPPORTING.

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!