Dear all...One Question...One Answer...
Qn. "Sir, I am 50 years old. My husband used to do lots
of Konjals with me during initial days of marriage. That has reduced slowly
over a period of time and now he has totally forgotten and does not do it. He
only does some official family talks. I want him to be with me the way he was
25 years back!!"
Ans:
"Baby animals are playful, active. Adult animals are
romantic and active. Old animals have none of these!!"
Anyone wants to do Konjals with babies and children as they
are cute, innocent, always smiling, active, do not know their age, always want
to be happy and do not behave for social acceptance.
So, forget your age and social status of mother,
mother-in-law and such other bla bla. Don't think about the future. Be mentally
free. Do yoga, meditation and other mental and physical exercises. Be
energetic, active and effervescent. You can't go back to your appearance 25
years back, but certainly put in efforts and be cute, innocent, playful and
romantic. Don't be like an old animal and make him also like the above!...
Think young, dress young, talk young, be mentally young, don't be much
conscious about socially acceptable behaviours or conscious of society etc.!!
I am sure, he might not be doing konjals, but continues to
be a responsible husband and father.
When men age, they will show their love more in behaviours
of being responsible, caring and supporting, and emotions that help for
exhibiting these behaviours, rather than indulging in or less indulging in
behaviours that lead to reproductive acts.
Any relationship that is formed with a motivation of only
reproductive needs will weaken/vanish. Relationships sustaining with a
motivation of other body needs will remain till the needs are satisfied. A
relationship beyond these will remain strong for eternity!!
So, change and change him through your changed thinking,
behaviours and emotions!!...Certainly there will be an improvement!!...All the
best!!
Peacefully yours…Rams…Psychologist!!
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