we and our damnnnn emotions!

hai guys and gals...how are we?

here is another new thinking about life, our own selves and things around!

have you ever seen a hen's den with few babies? It is so cute and refreshing to look at the babies...they remain inside the wings of mother with heads popping out. When we go near, the mother pushes the heads inside for safety. If an eagle or some animal tries to take away the baby birds, the mother fights it out and ensures the safety of its kids.

when we study the behaviour of such less evolved living organisms what do we observe?

they have natural urges for eating, defecating, protecting and reproduction.

emotions?...they have emotions related to only reproduction (they mate only during the mating periods (unlike human beings) driven by their inner systems), feeding the babies, protecting them from enemies, teaching them how to protect, search, kill and eat its prey. That is all. Apart from this they have no 'emotions or related behaviours'.

1. after the rearing cycle is over, during which time the kids become independent, the mother forgets the baby and baby forgets its mother. If any enemy attacks the kid, the mother does not go and fight with the enemy to protect the kid, as both of them have forgotten each other. No more 'mother-child' emotions or relationships, the 'limited' emotions that existed earlier between the two. The kid cock mates with its own mother. Mother also accepts it as it does not recognise the kid cock as it's kid. It recognises it as yet another cock!

2. after the rearing cycle is over it again gets emotions for mating with the male, any male, produces children, again gets attached to the children, teaches them, protects them and again forgets them after the rearing cycle is over...and it goes on!

3. they don't experience any other exhaustive emotions as human beings experience.

So, all such other species have only limited emotions for a limited time only. They don't have many relationships, almost no emotional relationships, don't go unstable while experiencing emotions. Therefore, they don't need any or much of emotional support!

We experience a number of emotions...happiness, anger, sorrow, fear, frustration, exclamation, disgust, guilty, shame, anxiety, envy, ...the list is really long!!

Human beings have emotions every moment and all throughout life. They never forget relationships and always feel emotional with all the people involved in emotional relationships. We also feel emotional with others with whom we are not having any emotional relationship e.g when some one is hurt on road we feel sympathetic and help. 

We have a large number of relationships (friends, mother, father, sister, brother, uncle and a biggg list!) and we experience varieties of love and all types of emotions and behaviours related to these relationships.

In just love itself we experience varieties and a large number of behaviours related to this like cuddling, hugging, kissing and what not!

Therefore, the flat naked truth is that 'human being, a highly emotionally evolved species, remembering relationships, forming a large network of ever expanding varieties of relationships, experiencing complex and multitude of emotions, goes unstable while experiencing emotions...and therefore, needs emotional support all throughout his life and without which he will feel lonely, land up with all mind related problems and might end his life!

This is not gender specific and therefore, it is the need of girls also. In fact, child bearing, rearing and by construct girls are more emotional than men and go unstable more and therefore, need more emotional support than men.

And all human beings need MOTHERLY LOVE all throughout his or her life and his or her search for a true motherly love goes on and on and on......never ending...and ends only when his or her brain dies!

No wonder he or she exhibits all the behaviours we exhibit with our mother, with the person or thing with whom we experience the motherly love.

The need for this motherly love is more when his neurotransmitter secretions are low, or when he perceives threat from a person, place or item or occasion etc....e.g losing of job, fear of losing wealth or other possessions, failing in exam, not getting job. feeling of rejection....like this we can go on...during all these situations in life he needs lots and lots of hugs, kisses, reassurance by words or physical behaviours which improves the secretions in the brain and makes him move forward in life...the love could be from a human being or from a talk or from some other living organism or non living one or even just nature...for e.g a drizzle or a cool cloud....after all it is a perception!...the feeling of love in the mind from what we see or sense!

so, what is changing is the quantity and quality of the need and whereas the need is always there every moment in a human being's life!

So, the crux is nature has given COMPLEX EMOTIONS to human beings to experience and enjoy the different dimensions of life, relationships, derive happiness out of everything, even sorrows.

so, let us enjoy the positive emotions, learn only lessons out of negative emotions, not suffer with negative emotions, cry out, cleanse and purify ourselves for the emotional losses and be happy, healthy and successful in life!

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all the best...keep rocking...bye...

peacefully yours....

rams!