hai all...here is something from Pandit sri sri ravishankar...
"Pain is part of love. This is what Christ symbolizes on the cross. The cross is pain and Christ is love. With understanding, the pain of love gets transformed into another dimension. It becomes longing.
If you really love something, you will long for it. Can there ever be a love without longing? Longing is the other face of love.
- Sri Sri Ravi Shankar
pain is a negative thing...love is a positive thing (hihihi...as per me!)...i think only when there is a 'body' 'NEED' there is pain in love...if this is not there then there is no pain in love...because the mind has many other methods of realising the needs through virtual methods...body only needs the presence of the person and gratification of the needs from the other body of the person!
also people interpret negative behaviours, emotions and thinking from the word 'longing'...actually when we equate longing for the body need, then there is pain, sadness, hate, frustration, anger and all such negatives associated with longing are perceived....but when we interpret longing as a need of the mind, then there is no pain or negatives...no fights with the other person over phone or chat or net or mails etc who is living far off and you are longing for him or her...because the mind always finds ways to gratify its needs through virtual simulation methods...
by longing sri sri does not mean sadness...crying...he talks about enjoying the relationship...virtual relationship...in the absence of the other partner...being happy...being living with that person...e.g in Indian epics meera (a common girl) loved Lord krishna...but krishna was not with her always...so, she was longing for him...singing songs...dancing...playing the veena or that damn instrument she had in her hands...so, guys, longing does not mean being sad or crying...or getting frustrated, or hating or shouting at the other person...it means loving in the absence!...enjoying the person and the relationship in the absence....love only has happiness and all positive emotions...it does not have any negative emotions like sad, hate, frustration, shouting, hitting, killing, causing damage etc...if you get it, that means your perception, thinking, understanding of love etc are wrong...what you have is not love, it is only a lust, need....a need of the body....that is why when the need is not met, the requirement is not fulfilled, they start fighting....even husband and wife start fighting...so, that love is conditional and exists only when needs are met...what a bloody love it is?????...love vaporises or vanishes when his or her need is not met!!!!!
longing increases love if it is real love beyond the needs of the body...mind travels beyond the physical presence...so mind needs does not look for the physical presence of the individual...IT IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR ANY INDIVIDUAL TO BE THERE ALWAYS AND TO SATISFY A PERSON TO ALL LEVELS BY ALL TYPES IN ALL DIMENSIONS...WHETHER THE INDIVIDUAL IS A BOY OR A GIRL!!!...SO, let us understand love, longing etc properly and be happy enjoying love and longing!
so, keep loving and keep longing folks! (of course, happily and healthily!!! (smile))
don't cry out of longing boys and girls!
keep rocking!
rams
"Pain is part of love. This is what Christ symbolizes on the cross. The cross is pain and Christ is love. With understanding, the pain of love gets transformed into another dimension. It becomes longing.
If you really love something, you will long for it. Can there ever be a love without longing? Longing is the other face of love.
- Sri Sri Ravi Shankar
pain is a negative thing...love is a positive thing (hihihi...as per me!)...i think only when there is a 'body' 'NEED' there is pain in love...if this is not there then there is no pain in love...because the mind has many other methods of realising the needs through virtual methods...body only needs the presence of the person and gratification of the needs from the other body of the person!
also people interpret negative behaviours, emotions and thinking from the word 'longing'...actually when we equate longing for the body need, then there is pain, sadness, hate, frustration, anger and all such negatives associated with longing are perceived....but when we interpret longing as a need of the mind, then there is no pain or negatives...no fights with the other person over phone or chat or net or mails etc who is living far off and you are longing for him or her...because the mind always finds ways to gratify its needs through virtual simulation methods...
by longing sri sri does not mean sadness...crying...he talks about enjoying the relationship...virtual relationship...in the absence of the other partner...being happy...being living with that person...e.g in Indian epics meera (a common girl) loved Lord krishna...but krishna was not with her always...so, she was longing for him...singing songs...dancing...playing the veena or that damn instrument she had in her hands...so, guys, longing does not mean being sad or crying...or getting frustrated, or hating or shouting at the other person...it means loving in the absence!...enjoying the person and the relationship in the absence....love only has happiness and all positive emotions...it does not have any negative emotions like sad, hate, frustration, shouting, hitting, killing, causing damage etc...if you get it, that means your perception, thinking, understanding of love etc are wrong...what you have is not love, it is only a lust, need....a need of the body....that is why when the need is not met, the requirement is not fulfilled, they start fighting....even husband and wife start fighting...so, that love is conditional and exists only when needs are met...what a bloody love it is?????...love vaporises or vanishes when his or her need is not met!!!!!
longing increases love if it is real love beyond the needs of the body...mind travels beyond the physical presence...so mind needs does not look for the physical presence of the individual...IT IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR ANY INDIVIDUAL TO BE THERE ALWAYS AND TO SATISFY A PERSON TO ALL LEVELS BY ALL TYPES IN ALL DIMENSIONS...WHETHER THE INDIVIDUAL IS A BOY OR A GIRL!!!...SO, let us understand love, longing etc properly and be happy enjoying love and longing!
so, keep loving and keep longing folks! (of course, happily and healthily!!! (smile))
don't cry out of longing boys and girls!
keep rocking!
rams
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