Hai all...how are we?
I received phone calls, sms and mails saying 'hai, where are your cute long posts?'...so here we go...(smile)
Once my friend said ‘My wife was cute during school and college days. Now she is not cute and has become witchy daa!’.
This is the statement of many guys. Of course, girls also have their truck loads to say ‘He was cute during the initial days. Now he has no time to konjufy me and barks all the time at every one’. Men in early middle or middle age show cuteness for 10 mts before their need is met. That is all.
Such perceptions bring a gap, growing gap, between the two physically or mentally or both and affects their social wellbeing with the other.
What is cuteness?...Where it goes as we age?...Is cuteness related to age?...Is it possible to retain it throughout life till the last?
All babies are cute. For children, their grandparents are always cute. So, cuteness is not related to age. We can be cute all throughout. Then where is it?
All cute people are beautiful. They radiate love and peace. This makes them attractive, makes many to come towards them, to be in their presence, to be in relationship etc. So, they give a soul filling happiness. But all those who are beautiful are not cute. Why?
Cuteness comes due to
1. Physical appearance
2. Behaviours
Both these change as we age. So, cuteness also changes and goes off. But if we are conscious of retaining our cuteness, then, yes, it is possible to retain our cuteness.
Is it possible to control the change in our physical appearance?...to an extent possible with lots of fruits, vegetables, cutting down some food items, exercising, meditation, yoga etc. We can slow down the aging process. But can’t stop completely.
But we can certainly keep the cute behaviours to exist always.
Cute people are always small in size, but even tall and big people can look cute and sweet.
Though it is a subjective term, but in general, kids are mostly perceived cute by all. It is a perception in the mind of the perceiver. One, who is judged as cute by one person, may not get judged as cute by another person.
Youthfulness is also assessed as cuteness, which is the part of appearance. Anyone who is dressed up funny is cute.
What are the characteristics of cute people?
1. they are not sad
2. they are always happy. They don't keep calculating the losses and gains in life events. They just want to be happy and be in that. They take everything in lighter sense and positivity. They can be happy at any place, in the company of any one and nothing and no one can deter their happiness.
3. they are always in the present. They don’t think about the fear of unknown future and sad moments of the past when they are with people, places, life situations etc. They always recollect the happy moments of the past and think only about the bright future.
4. they think positive always, show positive behaviours and emotions
5. they are full of love, happiness, peace and affection
6. it gives a nice feeling to be in their love envelope, feels heavenly to be in their presence.
7. Whatever they do is what they feel like doing. They don’t think ‘what others will think about me?’
8. they are non judgemental. They don’t assess, evaluate and judge people in front. They just show the true emotions and talk the truth as to what their heart says.
9. They might seem to be irresponsible, but they don’t get anxiety struck thinking about the next moment and future. They just do what is required to be done as the part of responsibility. They believe that ‘responsibility’ is not about thinking all the time about it, not doing anything, remaining anxiety struck, fearing about the future and spreading only unhappiness, stress, tension, shouting, frustration, spoiling the moods of people around and screwing up the physical, mental and social wellbeing. It is all about ‘PLANNING and DOING’ happily and enjoying every moment of the ‘doing’. That is all.
10. Our understanding of ‘Responsibility’ spoils cuteness. So, handle it as in point 9.
11. They want to be happy always. They do things which give them happiness or derive happiness out of what they do. As they involve mentally and physically in anything they do, they derive happiness and satisfaction in whatever they do and so are happy and cute.
12. Cute people are always full of fun, jovial, charming, attractive and accept people as they are. They don’t dictate others to be like them. They allow the others to do whatever they like. They don’t expect others to behave in a certain way.
13. Their mind is always free and not preoccupied.
14. Cuteness is mostly related to the ‘face’, thought it has some elements of ‘appearance’ and ‘behaviours’ of other part of the body.
15. Cuteness is the replica of mind. One with positive mental structures only can be cute. One full of jealousy, cunning, revenge, hate in the mind cannot be cute.
16. Some are cute only during certain brief times and life situations. Some are always cute.
17. Cuteness cannot be manipulated. It has to come from within. One can act and appear to be cute.
18. Cute people positively motivate the others to care for them without their knowledge.
19. Cute people have soft body features and not scary or ‘rough and touch’ features. If one has such tough body, they can bring in cuteness through, not their appearance, but through their behaviours.
20. Cuteness evolves from the basic ingredient of one’s personality i.e INNOCENCE. Innocent people generally are cute.
21. Nature has created all the infant organisms (humans, animals, birds, insects etc) to look cute, so that they are taken care of or cared by others for their wellbeing.
22. Cute people exhibit childlike and infant like characteristics, facial and body expressions and are non-aggressive in behaviours.
23. A person who radiates only love and peace perceives everyone around them to be cute!!! One with caretaking behaviour and affective orientation in life also perceives every one as cute only!!!!
24. Apart from behavioural traits, physical characteristics like size, shape and proportionality of facial parts (e.g chubby cheeks and big eyes) also contribute for the cuteness factor.
25. Cuteness comes out of innocence. Innocence means ‘not being evil’. Not knowing. Not knowing the nature and effect of their acts.
26. Cute people radiate pleasure and satisfaction. They are graceful and charismatic.
27. Even those people who are categorised as not beautiful and dirty also can appear cute. So, cuteness is more on the perceiver and it is related to the ‘mind set’ of both the people involved.
So, we might be aging and losing the cute appearance due to aging. But Let us not lose our cuteness in being anxiety struck on the name of ‘being responsible’ and ‘behaving as per age’.
So, guys and gals, let us be cute always and forever!!
rams...(cute smile)
I received phone calls, sms and mails saying 'hai, where are your cute long posts?'...so here we go...(smile)
Once my friend said ‘My wife was cute during school and college days. Now she is not cute and has become witchy daa!’.
This is the statement of many guys. Of course, girls also have their truck loads to say ‘He was cute during the initial days. Now he has no time to konjufy me and barks all the time at every one’. Men in early middle or middle age show cuteness for 10 mts before their need is met. That is all.
Such perceptions bring a gap, growing gap, between the two physically or mentally or both and affects their social wellbeing with the other.
What is cuteness?...Where it goes as we age?...Is cuteness related to age?...Is it possible to retain it throughout life till the last?
All babies are cute. For children, their grandparents are always cute. So, cuteness is not related to age. We can be cute all throughout. Then where is it?
All cute people are beautiful. They radiate love and peace. This makes them attractive, makes many to come towards them, to be in their presence, to be in relationship etc. So, they give a soul filling happiness. But all those who are beautiful are not cute. Why?
Cuteness comes due to
1. Physical appearance
2. Behaviours
Both these change as we age. So, cuteness also changes and goes off. But if we are conscious of retaining our cuteness, then, yes, it is possible to retain our cuteness.
Is it possible to control the change in our physical appearance?...to an extent possible with lots of fruits, vegetables, cutting down some food items, exercising, meditation, yoga etc. We can slow down the aging process. But can’t stop completely.
But we can certainly keep the cute behaviours to exist always.
Cute people are always small in size, but even tall and big people can look cute and sweet.
Though it is a subjective term, but in general, kids are mostly perceived cute by all. It is a perception in the mind of the perceiver. One, who is judged as cute by one person, may not get judged as cute by another person.
Youthfulness is also assessed as cuteness, which is the part of appearance. Anyone who is dressed up funny is cute.
What are the characteristics of cute people?
1. they are not sad
2. they are always happy. They don't keep calculating the losses and gains in life events. They just want to be happy and be in that. They take everything in lighter sense and positivity. They can be happy at any place, in the company of any one and nothing and no one can deter their happiness.
3. they are always in the present. They don’t think about the fear of unknown future and sad moments of the past when they are with people, places, life situations etc. They always recollect the happy moments of the past and think only about the bright future.
4. they think positive always, show positive behaviours and emotions
5. they are full of love, happiness, peace and affection
6. it gives a nice feeling to be in their love envelope, feels heavenly to be in their presence.
7. Whatever they do is what they feel like doing. They don’t think ‘what others will think about me?’
8. they are non judgemental. They don’t assess, evaluate and judge people in front. They just show the true emotions and talk the truth as to what their heart says.
9. They might seem to be irresponsible, but they don’t get anxiety struck thinking about the next moment and future. They just do what is required to be done as the part of responsibility. They believe that ‘responsibility’ is not about thinking all the time about it, not doing anything, remaining anxiety struck, fearing about the future and spreading only unhappiness, stress, tension, shouting, frustration, spoiling the moods of people around and screwing up the physical, mental and social wellbeing. It is all about ‘PLANNING and DOING’ happily and enjoying every moment of the ‘doing’. That is all.
10. Our understanding of ‘Responsibility’ spoils cuteness. So, handle it as in point 9.
11. They want to be happy always. They do things which give them happiness or derive happiness out of what they do. As they involve mentally and physically in anything they do, they derive happiness and satisfaction in whatever they do and so are happy and cute.
12. Cute people are always full of fun, jovial, charming, attractive and accept people as they are. They don’t dictate others to be like them. They allow the others to do whatever they like. They don’t expect others to behave in a certain way.
13. Their mind is always free and not preoccupied.
14. Cuteness is mostly related to the ‘face’, thought it has some elements of ‘appearance’ and ‘behaviours’ of other part of the body.
15. Cuteness is the replica of mind. One with positive mental structures only can be cute. One full of jealousy, cunning, revenge, hate in the mind cannot be cute.
16. Some are cute only during certain brief times and life situations. Some are always cute.
17. Cuteness cannot be manipulated. It has to come from within. One can act and appear to be cute.
18. Cute people positively motivate the others to care for them without their knowledge.
19. Cute people have soft body features and not scary or ‘rough and touch’ features. If one has such tough body, they can bring in cuteness through, not their appearance, but through their behaviours.
20. Cuteness evolves from the basic ingredient of one’s personality i.e INNOCENCE. Innocent people generally are cute.
21. Nature has created all the infant organisms (humans, animals, birds, insects etc) to look cute, so that they are taken care of or cared by others for their wellbeing.
22. Cute people exhibit childlike and infant like characteristics, facial and body expressions and are non-aggressive in behaviours.
23. A person who radiates only love and peace perceives everyone around them to be cute!!! One with caretaking behaviour and affective orientation in life also perceives every one as cute only!!!!
24. Apart from behavioural traits, physical characteristics like size, shape and proportionality of facial parts (e.g chubby cheeks and big eyes) also contribute for the cuteness factor.
25. Cuteness comes out of innocence. Innocence means ‘not being evil’. Not knowing. Not knowing the nature and effect of their acts.
26. Cute people radiate pleasure and satisfaction. They are graceful and charismatic.
27. Even those people who are categorised as not beautiful and dirty also can appear cute. So, cuteness is more on the perceiver and it is related to the ‘mind set’ of both the people involved.
So, we might be aging and losing the cute appearance due to aging. But Let us not lose our cuteness in being anxiety struck on the name of ‘being responsible’ and ‘behaving as per age’.
So, guys and gals, let us be cute always and forever!!
rams...(cute smile)
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