hai all...
these days the students are exposed to far too many people and even people of far off places...the girls of student age are generally youthful, cheerful and therefore, beautiful. This attracts boys or men of all ages. The body and mind of the boy or man adapts to the girl, down to earth, that the girl falls for him. They end up in physical relationships of all sorts and extents...later when the boy leaves or relationship breaks she lands up to a counselor. Of course, this happens to boys also, as these idiots can perceive only only type of relationship or love (reproductive love) with girls. So, some tips for girls...
1. when a person loves another person truly he will not harm or spoil the happiness of the other person. There is no revenge there. There is only positive emotions and behaviours. No room for negatives. There is no perception of cheating or possessiveness. It is full of freedom. Mostly and sadly every one in our country and even in other countries, perceives only reproductive love with expectations and possessiveness and therefore, there is no love there, it is only a business of 'i give if only you give!'...therefore, people only experience few moments of short lived happiness, hours and a life of sadness, frustration, dissatisfaction and failure.
2. don't get close to any one physically and emotionally
3. analyse throughly by listing his characteristics over a long period of time
4. go close to him only if you are convinced over few years of being in relationship
5. don't bend to circumstances, requests and demands
6. don't 'give' yourself, for retaining the relationships or for favours
1. Any girl, whether good looking or dark or ugly looking....what ever may be her condition of appearance, a boy will certainly get attracted to that girl some time or the other (depending upon his body and mind needs, environment and the appearance and behaviours of the other person) and show signs of approaches and movement towards physical relationship...it will start with being near, touching (usual friendly only, during conversations, here and there, very very normal unintentional, without any motive and acceptable touches)...slowly without the knowledge of both it will turn to be touching boldly, not with fingers but with full palm, at places like hands, legs etc...then it will move and spread to other places also...then it will become side ways hugs of giving confidence etc...kissing on forehead, palm...then it will move to kissing on cheeks (not romantic but kissing a child like or confidence building kiss types)...then it will slowly spread to all places and all types...
like this physical relationship moves forward and ends up in reproductive and other private behaviours.
so, how you look or your behaviours is not important...being a female itself will attract a boy to a girl.
When a girl is beautiful, youthful, cute, innocent, naive, talking to every one nicely, radiates happiness and peace, blond like, shiny skin, fair then every one of any age will get attracted towards that girl...so, you will find any boy or man getting attracted towards you...but you have to decide your limits...you should never develop physical relationships ...i.e being close to the person physically at about one foot distance...(going closer makes the person to get the fragrance from body, closer looks, which stimulates the adrenals and drives him towards vigorous physical behaviours)
you should never give or take physical relationships just for the sake of 'not to lose that person and his relationship'....this is wrong...because you are doing for others' sake and you are not doing it for your sake or after getting convinced in your mind that what you are doing is right. so you will feel guilty later. this will make you suffer.
we should have physical relationship with a person only when....
1. our definition of life or our constitution of life which we have framed in our mind says having hugs or kisses or showing our body to others before or after marriage (as applicable) is not wrong.
2. we should be convinced in our mind that it is our conscious decision after weighing different factors that we have taken a decision to have physical relationship.
3. even if the person leaves the relationship any time in life, we will not feel bad or guilty or angry or feel cheated etc. (e.g those who have physical relationship for fun will not feel bad if the other person goes out of relationship...in fact these people only will leave the other person and go to some one else for a change or difference experience etc)
so, if these three conditions are met, then if a person has any physical relationship, then it will not affect that person because they feel IT IS NOT WRONG, THEY HAVE TAKEN A CONSCIOUS DECISION AFTER LOTS OF THINKING, THEY ARE NOT POSSESSIVE ABOUT THAT PERSON AND DO NOT MIND EVEN IF HE OR SHE LEAVES....
if any of the above condition is not met, then both the people in physical relationship will suffer and will need a therapy or treatment to get out of this issue stored in the brain...
rams
these days the students are exposed to far too many people and even people of far off places...the girls of student age are generally youthful, cheerful and therefore, beautiful. This attracts boys or men of all ages. The body and mind of the boy or man adapts to the girl, down to earth, that the girl falls for him. They end up in physical relationships of all sorts and extents...later when the boy leaves or relationship breaks she lands up to a counselor. Of course, this happens to boys also, as these idiots can perceive only only type of relationship or love (reproductive love) with girls. So, some tips for girls...
1. when a person loves another person truly he will not harm or spoil the happiness of the other person. There is no revenge there. There is only positive emotions and behaviours. No room for negatives. There is no perception of cheating or possessiveness. It is full of freedom. Mostly and sadly every one in our country and even in other countries, perceives only reproductive love with expectations and possessiveness and therefore, there is no love there, it is only a business of 'i give if only you give!'...therefore, people only experience few moments of short lived happiness, hours and a life of sadness, frustration, dissatisfaction and failure.
2. don't get close to any one physically and emotionally
3. analyse throughly by listing his characteristics over a long period of time
4. go close to him only if you are convinced over few years of being in relationship
5. don't bend to circumstances, requests and demands
6. don't 'give' yourself, for retaining the relationships or for favours
1. Any girl, whether good looking or dark or ugly looking....what ever may be her condition of appearance, a boy will certainly get attracted to that girl some time or the other (depending upon his body and mind needs, environment and the appearance and behaviours of the other person) and show signs of approaches and movement towards physical relationship...it will start with being near, touching (usual friendly only, during conversations, here and there, very very normal unintentional, without any motive and acceptable touches)...slowly without the knowledge of both it will turn to be touching boldly, not with fingers but with full palm, at places like hands, legs etc...then it will move and spread to other places also...then it will become side ways hugs of giving confidence etc...kissing on forehead, palm...then it will move to kissing on cheeks (not romantic but kissing a child like or confidence building kiss types)...then it will slowly spread to all places and all types...
like this physical relationship moves forward and ends up in reproductive and other private behaviours.
so, how you look or your behaviours is not important...being a female itself will attract a boy to a girl.
When a girl is beautiful, youthful, cute, innocent, naive, talking to every one nicely, radiates happiness and peace, blond like, shiny skin, fair then every one of any age will get attracted towards that girl...so, you will find any boy or man getting attracted towards you...but you have to decide your limits...you should never develop physical relationships ...i.e being close to the person physically at about one foot distance...(going closer makes the person to get the fragrance from body, closer looks, which stimulates the adrenals and drives him towards vigorous physical behaviours)
you should never give or take physical relationships just for the sake of 'not to lose that person and his relationship'....this is wrong...because you are doing for others' sake and you are not doing it for your sake or after getting convinced in your mind that what you are doing is right. so you will feel guilty later. this will make you suffer.
we should have physical relationship with a person only when....
1. our definition of life or our constitution of life which we have framed in our mind says having hugs or kisses or showing our body to others before or after marriage (as applicable) is not wrong.
2. we should be convinced in our mind that it is our conscious decision after weighing different factors that we have taken a decision to have physical relationship.
3. even if the person leaves the relationship any time in life, we will not feel bad or guilty or angry or feel cheated etc. (e.g those who have physical relationship for fun will not feel bad if the other person goes out of relationship...in fact these people only will leave the other person and go to some one else for a change or difference experience etc)
so, if these three conditions are met, then if a person has any physical relationship, then it will not affect that person because they feel IT IS NOT WRONG, THEY HAVE TAKEN A CONSCIOUS DECISION AFTER LOTS OF THINKING, THEY ARE NOT POSSESSIVE ABOUT THAT PERSON AND DO NOT MIND EVEN IF HE OR SHE LEAVES....
if any of the above condition is not met, then both the people in physical relationship will suffer and will need a therapy or treatment to get out of this issue stored in the brain...
rams
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