hai all...
intensity and number of times, we feel 'rejection of love and affection' or 'feeling of rejection' (e.g when a child runs and hugs her mom, her mom does not allow and throws her out) is directly proportional to our sadness, loss of peace, bad mental health, physical health, the 'need or heavy urge for love and affection'...search for a compatible mate for getting this...irrespective of age...i.e whether we are 10 years old or 90 years old...and same with the other person’s age too...
so, one who faces the largest of the above, by intensity and by number of times will suffer a lot in his life...emotionally...this leads to a disorder and it can also lead to 'Guna' character in tamil movie 'guna'
today and in the years to come human beings are likely to face more and more ‘feeling of rejections’ as our socialisation through media, internet, social networking sites, and what not, will only increase and therefore, the feeling of rejections also will increase...one might get many ‘acceptance of love’ also, but the rejections will always remain and haunt the person to thirst and search for more and more ‘love acceptances’...
less the feeling of rejection of love and affection...the less sadness and loss of peace due to this issue...
rejection could be from two angles...i.e when the other person does not accept or acknowledge or rejects your love and affection that you are giving...the other angle is you need lots of love and affection and the other person from whom you are expecting is rejecting you and not giving it...both have a heavy damage on the mental development, happiness and health of a person...
also every human being requires to experience all sorts of love...from all sorts of relationships on earth...e.g a child is not completely happy if it gets love and affection from only mom and not from dad....the list goes on....e.g a man also requires from his wife, child, mom, friend etc...even if love is denied from one person or the other...i.e feeling of rejection from any one on earth or any relationship, then also the damage is heavy...of course, the organism tries to compensate the loss from the other relationships or seeks new relationships which can give that type of love and affection...that is why ‘the type of love and affection which one looks forward from the other person depends on what type he or she is missing in her life!’...this defines the type of relationship between the two people...
i can go on typing on this issue but will stop now...bye...
rams
intensity and number of times, we feel 'rejection of love and affection' or 'feeling of rejection' (e.g when a child runs and hugs her mom, her mom does not allow and throws her out) is directly proportional to our sadness, loss of peace, bad mental health, physical health, the 'need or heavy urge for love and affection'...search for a compatible mate for getting this...irrespective of age...i.e whether we are 10 years old or 90 years old...and same with the other person’s age too...
so, one who faces the largest of the above, by intensity and by number of times will suffer a lot in his life...emotionally...this leads to a disorder and it can also lead to 'Guna' character in tamil movie 'guna'
today and in the years to come human beings are likely to face more and more ‘feeling of rejections’ as our socialisation through media, internet, social networking sites, and what not, will only increase and therefore, the feeling of rejections also will increase...one might get many ‘acceptance of love’ also, but the rejections will always remain and haunt the person to thirst and search for more and more ‘love acceptances’...
less the feeling of rejection of love and affection...the less sadness and loss of peace due to this issue...
rejection could be from two angles...i.e when the other person does not accept or acknowledge or rejects your love and affection that you are giving...the other angle is you need lots of love and affection and the other person from whom you are expecting is rejecting you and not giving it...both have a heavy damage on the mental development, happiness and health of a person...
also every human being requires to experience all sorts of love...from all sorts of relationships on earth...e.g a child is not completely happy if it gets love and affection from only mom and not from dad....the list goes on....e.g a man also requires from his wife, child, mom, friend etc...even if love is denied from one person or the other...i.e feeling of rejection from any one on earth or any relationship, then also the damage is heavy...of course, the organism tries to compensate the loss from the other relationships or seeks new relationships which can give that type of love and affection...that is why ‘the type of love and affection which one looks forward from the other person depends on what type he or she is missing in her life!’...this defines the type of relationship between the two people...
i can go on typing on this issue but will stop now...bye...
rams
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