hai all...ego...the biggest problem we face at home, office, society...every where!!
what is it?
"i am right"
"i am better than you"
"i am superior to you"
"my caste is better than yours"
"my religion is better than yours"
it goes on like this...basically the result of comparison...either consciously or subconsciously!
every one is born at different places, differently grown, face difference experiences in life...have different knowledge and skills...so, truely every one is incomparable...
what we do is we compare ourselves with others in one aspect...but in the other aspect (known or unknown to us) he will certainly be better than us...
to have a better family life, or social life or relationships or official life 'more than one trait' is required...no one can be happy or healthy or peaceful or in harmony with others or successful just with one trait at peaks. Many skills/traits are required to achieve these.
Once we compare, become egoistic, we will get all negative perceptions, emotions, behaviors and land up with sadness, fights, frustration, failures, losses etc. We lose the opportunity of new learning, lose a new person, new experience...may be opportunity of enlightenment too!
so, being egoistic is meaningless, wrong, put us in failure track, break relationships, depression, suicides and what not!!!
so let us 'go' the e'go'!!...
rams
what is it?
"i am right"
"i am better than you"
"i am superior to you"
"my caste is better than yours"
"my religion is better than yours"
it goes on like this...basically the result of comparison...either consciously or subconsciously!
every one is born at different places, differently grown, face difference experiences in life...have different knowledge and skills...so, truely every one is incomparable...
what we do is we compare ourselves with others in one aspect...but in the other aspect (known or unknown to us) he will certainly be better than us...
to have a better family life, or social life or relationships or official life 'more than one trait' is required...no one can be happy or healthy or peaceful or in harmony with others or successful just with one trait at peaks. Many skills/traits are required to achieve these.
Once we compare, become egoistic, we will get all negative perceptions, emotions, behaviors and land up with sadness, fights, frustration, failures, losses etc. We lose the opportunity of new learning, lose a new person, new experience...may be opportunity of enlightenment too!
so, being egoistic is meaningless, wrong, put us in failure track, break relationships, depression, suicides and what not!!!
so let us 'go' the e'go'!!...
rams
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