What will be the biggest challenge to the children of future??

Dear all...

We all come across MOTHERS' DAY....FATHERS' DAY....

Mother, father, brother, sister etc are relationships....not people!!...These are social statuses with associated roles and responsibilities. We all have a perception about these roles and responsibilities with the associated relationships. We all have some feelings, beliefs, opinions about these relationships, roles or responsibilities.

When we experience these from any person, then we associate that relationship to that person. It is not in that person. It is in our perception. We only perceive the relationship, roles and responsibilities with that person. That other person has very less role to play. We associate the relationship that we miss in our lives with that person.

Can a mother be replaced by a father?....Can a father be replaced by a mother?....Not completely.

Also when a person experiences love and affection from a man, can he or she relate it to a Motherly love?...Same way, when a person experiences love and affection from a girl, can he or she relate it to a father's love??....Hmmmm...probably NO!

Now that all the girls and boys are getting good education, have ambitions, passions etc, will get employed at different places all over the country and world. Then, is there any possibility of both living together during the life phase of the child when it requires the love and affection of both father and mother?

As single parent families are prominently visible in future, with mostly mother being that single parent, will most of the children of future miss fatherly love from the real biological father?...Will they search for fatherly love outside the family?...Will such children be COMPLETE in growth with respect to developmental tasks related to each stage of life?

Is it necessary that a child should get both fatherly and motherly love to grow correctly and properly?...Yes!!

So, it is clear that the children will have a challenge in their life and look for either fatherly love or motherly love or both outside the family!!

What will be the outcome of this in the structure or concept of family and relationships??

Let us wait and watch!!

Peacefully yours....rams!!