Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL WHO FEEL THAT THEY KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT LOVE...
1. Many posts have been written (type 'funnyrams' in google and click the topmost link) on this important topic of life. Some new dimensions are here....
2. Indian culture, society, people and films recognize a relationship as LOVE when there is a sexual physical intimacy involved.
3. Possessiveness comes in the relationship when the needs, expectations and wants are getting met. This is the time the inner mind says 'i want this exclusively for me for life time!'. This is the time when all the negatives appear in relationships (suspicion, back-sniffing, anxiety, frustration, anger, sadness, stress, sleeplessness etc...a long list!!) and the relationship starts straining, becoming painful and breaks!!...So, we need to be cautious about this Nature induced stuff and remain away from it!!
4. Every relationship is a fun till it reaches this possessiveness stage.
5. The first stage of Inquisitive Love is full of fun, expectations, suspense and wanting to know the unknown of the other person. This stage is enjoyed by all. But once one comes to know, see, experience everything about the other person, the relationship becomes a curd rice in case it is a committed relationship like married-life. Else the relationship breaks, new relationships flourish till they also become a curd rice and break-up happens before commencement of another relationship!!
Therefore, if you want a relationship to be firing for life time, don't try to know, feel, see and experience everything about/from the other person. Let there be something unknown, unseen, not felt, not experienced so that there is always a longing towards the unknown. This keeps the relationship firing, exciting and Inquisitive Love stays on.
More will follow...
Peacefully yours....rams...
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