THIS IS FOR ALL SCHOOL AND COLLEGE STUDENTS

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL SCHOOL AND COLLEGE STUDENTS...

All of us were children till about 10 years old...and parents were our gods and home was our world!!

We attained age!!

The world outside the home slowly started becoming our home!...

People outside our home started attracting us and we started spending more time with them. Suddenly some one appears to be more beautiful and caring than parents...whatever that person says appears to be soothing, right, true, correct. We get obsessed with that person.

We get attracted to or fall in love or whatever you name as....we start feeling that person of opposite sex is beautiful or attractive or caring or whatever you name as the relationship!!

But before getting attracted or moving further towards that person and falling in a relationship or love or whatever, check out if you have back bone, or strength or guts to face the challenges at home, relatives circles, community and society!!

I happened to watch a video wherein a boy was brutally being attacked by some group of people with many watchers around because he fell in love with a girl of their family or community. We keep watching such clips of brutal killing or videos or news in TV channels or social networks.

In India, still in many communities marriages are a big business. Marrying outside their community or caste or religion is a big sin and the parents will do anything to protect the customs and traditions of their community.

Check out if your parents or relatives or people in your community are of this kind!!

If yes, then decide what you should do before you take your first step in such relationships or attractions!!

Else you might get killed like that...or you will make a person to die like that!!

Beware....India is rich of such people and communities!!

If you leave the relationship in between, then the other person might feel cheated and what that person will do, no one knows!!...he or she might harm you or harm him/her self. In case some one gets attracted towards you, then think about your parents and relatives and tell him or her that 'it will not work out!' and move away, instead of having unpleasantness and related consequences later in life!!

The aim of this post to caution before getting attracted to a person of opposite sex because everything takes place without our reality-consciousness when we are in that fantasy world of good feelings!!

Many score less marks and darken their future, fail in exams, get suspended from colleges and schools, run away from hostels and home, change their good fortunes for this attraction and regret later, get killed,....land up with smoking, drinking, drugs, petty crimes, jail ............

So, the happy days of childhood becomes horrible days of adolescence and dark period of adult hood!!

Beware about your surroundings and protect yourself!!

Peacefully yours...rams...Psychologist!!