Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL WHO WANT LOVE...LOVER...GOOD RELATIONSHIPS...WHO HAVE HAD BREAK-UPS IN LOVE!!
To have a good mental health, we have to have good social relationships with all. We can not live alone on this earth and have good health too.
We have to either have all types of relationships or perceive all kinds of relationships.
All living organisms need MOTHERLY LOVE AND CARE. This is basic, vital and necessary condition for good mental health. All other relationships are sufficient conditions.
When we make or perceive relationships with human beings, who generally can provide only conditional love, then we are sure to have disappointments often. Whereas we can get or perceive unconditional love with other living organisms and non living, provided our mind is positive, open and creative.
If you get a human being who can provide unconditional love you are too lucky. At any cost, don't lose that person and relationship. If you can perceive all types of relationships from a person, then also you are too lucky and don't lose that person or relationship at any cost!!
Only fantasy can not fulfill all the needs of relationships. More reality relationships means it is better. Fantasy can only fulfill the deficiencies partially.
When we give unconditional love to all living organisms, then we are sure to get or perceive all types of relationships from both living and non-living.
From others, every one perceives the relationships they miss in their life. Mismatches in perception of type of relationship leads to strained relationships and break-ups.
If we look forward for all types of relationships or many types of relationships from one person, conditionally, then we are going to stress ourselves, the other person and the relationship. Less the better. Best is, only one relationship.
One who gives motherly love, will win more hearts and can never feel lonely!!
With their gods, people can perceive all types of relationships. With nature also it is possible!!
Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist...!!
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