Sunday, 12 January 2014

"love is the basic dire need for stability of mind...or else it will go unstable"

hai all...something which came to my mind now...

Love is a basic feeling of life, which has to be there in the mind of every human being either consciously or subconsciously each and every moment for him or her to be in a state of stable mind (within the stability band)...otherwise he or she will lose stability and the extent to which the stability is lost depends on the effect or perception of lack of love...it could lead to any type of behaviour that can cause or cost anything!...dangerous state of mind!

every one is in search of love consciously or subconsiously all the time...the feeling of happiness...the feeling of acceptance...the feeling of being a part of a team or group or society...a feeling of not lonely....a feeling of support (emotional, intellectual, legal, social, physical etc) when a person is stable, it means that the organism is in a state of perceiving love consciously or subconsciously...only when the love is lost (above feelings) then the organism perceives it...loss of love... (e.g loss of parents, flying away of children, loss of spouse or flying away...when they are there, we don't feel anything...our mind takes the situation for granted...only when they miss the 'miss' is felt and it results in change in behaviours consciously or subconsciously)


yes...most of the time when i observe people going unstable...i.e getting angry...getting frustrated...doing all funny weird things...when i analyse there is a sense of 'lost love' i.e a feeling of 'no one is there for me' or a feeling of rejection...this feeling could be momentary or can last for some time...but during the time the individual has the feeling, it creates a havoc in the person and ruins many around and creates a hell for people around...some even talk or do somethings which can break any relationship, for ever too!...too dangerous!...tht is why we need to have good friends, who can understand what is happening to us, and will save us during such turbulent times of mind.

rams 

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