hai all...there is an interesting thing I typed, I got an interesting question, and the answer is here...
this is what I typed...read below...
""Love is a basic feeling of life, which has to be there in the mind of every human being either consciously or subconsciously each and every moment for him or her to be in a state of stable mind (within the stability band)...otherwise he or she will lose stability and the extent to which the stability is lost depends on the effect or perception of lack of love...it could lead to any type of behaviour that can cause or cost anything!...dangerous state of mind!
every one is in search of love consciously or subconsiously all the time...the feeling of happiness...the feeling of acceptance...the feeling of being a part of a team or group or society...a feeling of not lonely....a feeling of support (emotional, intellectual, legal, social, physical etc) when a person is stable, it means that the organism is in a state of perceiving love consciously or subconsciously...only when the love is lost (above feelings) then the organism perceives it...loss of love... (e.g loss of parents, flying away of children, loss of spouse or flying away...when they are there, we don't feel anything...our mind takes the situation for granted...only when they miss the 'miss' is felt and it results in change in behaviours consciously or subconsciously)""
the question asked by some one is....
""but if you have not received love and affection from childhood from parents or others???.... if you have no basis under your feet that basic feeling???
from birth abused are abused neglected HOW is it possible that you can still feel love (give and take) (for anything) even human or not human???
is love something that you'll face after birth, by parents or is it something you developed and taught? or is it already in the early stages of development, when you were a child still in the womb?""
some answer which came to my mind is here...
"hai all...some times some questions asked here or some of the posts kindle some thinking, some more reading, some more researching...that is where such discussion threads improve our wisdom...like that this question made me to think...what ever came to my mind is here...
my definition is there is only nature every where...and all of us, living and non-living form a part of the wide and wild nature...and in this nature, though we are all separated physically, like stones, animals, butterfly etc, we are all united together...all of us together form the nature...so, the connectivity is always there...whether before birth or before that...we are subset of nature...so, we remain 'connected' with others always...whether we know it consciously or not...so, the crux is we are always connected to all...not alone here...we remain connected to all and everything through our sensors and memory...physically and mentally....so, we are never alone...never lonely...loneliness is only a perception when our neurotransmitters go low.
so, nature has given all living beings the ability to remain connected, attract others towards them, not only the living but the non living too...so, all elements of nature attract, remain attracted and attached.
I don't know if only human beings feel lonely or even the other living beings also feel the same...may be more we are evolved, advanced, more we feel lonely and all such new feelings, negative feelings!!!
We have another big problem of attaching ourselves emotionally to only the few at home or in the school or college or office or in other social groups. The truth is 'the whole world is for us and we are for the whole universe!'...therefore, if we confine ourselves to few limited, push ourselves inside a small bottle of a home or school or class room or a social group and think this is the world, then we are sure to feel lack of love some time or the other...so, we need to expand ourselves to the whole world...there are lakhs and crores who can be the best friends for us for life...there are there every where...only thing is we have not reached them and they have not reached us...of course, searching for them takes time, effort, energy etc...in the process we might end up in the wrong hands and might screw some part of our life or happiness or health...and no one meets all the suitable friends for them in the whole world...so, when we are with limited people, we are sure to face such a loveless situation...
there are many orphans from birth...some become orphans while growing...some are orphans throughout their life even if they had parents...though parents play a key role in providing love and affection, which shapes or grooms a child in to a better human being, what can we do if they are unable to provide or not there to provide?...so, those who do not get the basic breath and food of life, i.e love and affection, the resilient children, look for the same outside the house and try to get it from others and other things in nature...i.e from other elements of nature...they get carved by nature nicely...every person becomes a god for them...every thing becomes a guru for them...they learn and get happiness every second of their life....
so,.....
1. love is a part of nature and element of all elements in nature always.
2. let us not limit ourselves to the handful at home or around for love and affection. Let us come out of the bottle and breath love from the whole world.
leaving the pc now and will add more later...bye guys...keep rocking!
rams
this is what I typed...read below...
""Love is a basic feeling of life, which has to be there in the mind of every human being either consciously or subconsciously each and every moment for him or her to be in a state of stable mind (within the stability band)...otherwise he or she will lose stability and the extent to which the stability is lost depends on the effect or perception of lack of love...it could lead to any type of behaviour that can cause or cost anything!...dangerous state of mind!
every one is in search of love consciously or subconsiously all the time...the feeling of happiness...the feeling of acceptance...the feeling of being a part of a team or group or society...a feeling of not lonely....a feeling of support (emotional, intellectual, legal, social, physical etc) when a person is stable, it means that the organism is in a state of perceiving love consciously or subconsciously...only when the love is lost (above feelings) then the organism perceives it...loss of love... (e.g loss of parents, flying away of children, loss of spouse or flying away...when they are there, we don't feel anything...our mind takes the situation for granted...only when they miss the 'miss' is felt and it results in change in behaviours consciously or subconsciously)""
the question asked by some one is....
""but if you have not received love and affection from childhood from parents or others???.... if you have no basis under your feet that basic feeling???
from birth abused are abused neglected HOW is it possible that you can still feel love (give and take) (for anything) even human or not human???
is love something that you'll face after birth, by parents or is it something you developed and taught? or is it already in the early stages of development, when you were a child still in the womb?""
some answer which came to my mind is here...
"hai all...some times some questions asked here or some of the posts kindle some thinking, some more reading, some more researching...that is where such discussion threads improve our wisdom...like that this question made me to think...what ever came to my mind is here...
my definition is there is only nature every where...and all of us, living and non-living form a part of the wide and wild nature...and in this nature, though we are all separated physically, like stones, animals, butterfly etc, we are all united together...all of us together form the nature...so, the connectivity is always there...whether before birth or before that...we are subset of nature...so, we remain 'connected' with others always...whether we know it consciously or not...so, the crux is we are always connected to all...not alone here...we remain connected to all and everything through our sensors and memory...physically and mentally....so, we are never alone...never lonely...loneliness is only a perception when our neurotransmitters go low.
so, nature has given all living beings the ability to remain connected, attract others towards them, not only the living but the non living too...so, all elements of nature attract, remain attracted and attached.
I don't know if only human beings feel lonely or even the other living beings also feel the same...may be more we are evolved, advanced, more we feel lonely and all such new feelings, negative feelings!!!
We have another big problem of attaching ourselves emotionally to only the few at home or in the school or college or office or in other social groups. The truth is 'the whole world is for us and we are for the whole universe!'...therefore, if we confine ourselves to few limited, push ourselves inside a small bottle of a home or school or class room or a social group and think this is the world, then we are sure to feel lack of love some time or the other...so, we need to expand ourselves to the whole world...there are lakhs and crores who can be the best friends for us for life...there are there every where...only thing is we have not reached them and they have not reached us...of course, searching for them takes time, effort, energy etc...in the process we might end up in the wrong hands and might screw some part of our life or happiness or health...and no one meets all the suitable friends for them in the whole world...so, when we are with limited people, we are sure to face such a loveless situation...
there are many orphans from birth...some become orphans while growing...some are orphans throughout their life even if they had parents...though parents play a key role in providing love and affection, which shapes or grooms a child in to a better human being, what can we do if they are unable to provide or not there to provide?...so, those who do not get the basic breath and food of life, i.e love and affection, the resilient children, look for the same outside the house and try to get it from others and other things in nature...i.e from other elements of nature...they get carved by nature nicely...every person becomes a god for them...every thing becomes a guru for them...they learn and get happiness every second of their life....
so,.....
1. love is a part of nature and element of all elements in nature always.
2. let us not limit ourselves to the handful at home or around for love and affection. Let us come out of the bottle and breath love from the whole world.
leaving the pc now and will add more later...bye guys...keep rocking!
rams
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