hai all...
whether we like it or not we are by nature...by default...in relationships...starting from mother, to father to siblings to relatives to friends...we are in multiple relationships by default and nature. We can't avoid it.
Only thing is we should know how to be happy, physically-mentally-socially be healthy and successful while being in relationships.
It is very simple.
Don't worry about other person likes you or not. It does not really matter. In a relationship what is important is you should like or love the other person. This is what is more important. If you like or love that person then you will cherish his or her memories. His presence. His behaviours. You will be happy and healthy. Successful too. You will radiate happiness and peace. This automatically will make other person to like you and love you.
Whereas we are always measuring, suspecting and expecting relationships and people. So, we always negative in our relationships, approach etc. We are always anxiety struck. We don't radiate happiness and peace. We always radiate sadness, frustration, irritation, suspicion and all negativity. So, we get also negatives from other person. In relationships we get what we give. So, finally we hate him and he also hates us. This ends in breakups or end of relationships.
More expectations lead to unfulfilled needs. This leads to frustration and anger. This leads to breakups.
If we like or love that person irrespective of he or she loving us or living with us or not, then we will always experience happiness, peace, love within us through his or her memories.
We can never hate a person whom we love truly. If you hate a person that means you did not love truly. You only loved to meet your unknown, inner, body and mind needs with or without your knowledge.
rams
whether we like it or not we are by nature...by default...in relationships...starting from mother, to father to siblings to relatives to friends...we are in multiple relationships by default and nature. We can't avoid it.
Only thing is we should know how to be happy, physically-mentally-socially be healthy and successful while being in relationships.
It is very simple.
Don't worry about other person likes you or not. It does not really matter. In a relationship what is important is you should like or love the other person. This is what is more important. If you like or love that person then you will cherish his or her memories. His presence. His behaviours. You will be happy and healthy. Successful too. You will radiate happiness and peace. This automatically will make other person to like you and love you.
Whereas we are always measuring, suspecting and expecting relationships and people. So, we always negative in our relationships, approach etc. We are always anxiety struck. We don't radiate happiness and peace. We always radiate sadness, frustration, irritation, suspicion and all negativity. So, we get also negatives from other person. In relationships we get what we give. So, finally we hate him and he also hates us. This ends in breakups or end of relationships.
More expectations lead to unfulfilled needs. This leads to frustration and anger. This leads to breakups.
If we like or love that person irrespective of he or she loving us or living with us or not, then we will always experience happiness, peace, love within us through his or her memories.
We can never hate a person whom we love truly. If you hate a person that means you did not love truly. You only loved to meet your unknown, inner, body and mind needs with or without your knowledge.
rams
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