What matters the most...'Mind of the lover girl' or 'the words of the lover boy'?

Hai all....What matters the most...'MIND of the lover girl'? or the 'WORDS of the lover boy'?

when two people love each other mostly the boy has all the words of praise for the girl...but does she respond positively for all his praises all the time? 

if we observe anything, it becomes Beautiful or Correct or Pleasant or Acceptable (BCPA) ONLY IF OUR MIND MATCHES WITH IT IN FEELINGS, MOODS, EMOTIONS AND THOUGHTS  (FMET). So, mind is the first and foremost. If it is not in the matching FMET then the BCPA is not realised. Also the mind has to be Happy, Peaceful, Silent, at Rest and Vacant (HPSRV). Only then it can perceive BCPA.Otherwise not!!

Therefore, mind is the first and foremost and has to be happy, peaceful, silent, at rest and vacant with matching feelings, moods, emotions and thoughts. Only then the beauty or correctness or pleasantness or acceptability of a person or any thing can be perceived by the mind.

Therefore the realisation of beauty or correctness or acceptability of a person or a thing is not in that person or the thing...it is only in mind of the person observing it!!!

for e.g read these romantic phrases which are generally used by any one who is in love....and then read the analysis at the bottom...

'I love you daa!' 'I miss you a lot maa!' 'I miss your hugs and kisses'

'hmmm...i want to see you!'  'I feel like i want to hear your melodious sweet voice!'  'You are very beautiful!'  'You are a sweet personality!'  'A feeling of happiness and peace flows in me when i think about you!'  'You are the ultimate beauty for me!'  'You are the best gift of god to me!' 'I don't need any one or anything in my life other than you!' 'I like both your beauty and personality!' 'Your eyes are too beautiful and expressive!' 'You are the most charming beauty under the sky!' 'Your cheeks are like apples!' 'Your lips are too tasty like 'honey-oranges'!'  'you have a great figure!' 'The road sign boards like 'Dangerous Curves ahead, Go slow!' 'Don't speed up at curves!' etc make sense only when i am with you!' 'You have cute and beautiful hips!' 'You have beautiful butts!' 'Your voice is great!' 'Your dance performance is fabulous!' 'You have a great sense of humour!'''

of course one can go on typing endlessly like this because lovers have not left anything to describe their lovers...

now, all these beautiful phrases make a meaning, bring in happiness and smiles on the face of the girl and make her respond positively only if her mind is peaceful, happy, silent, at rest, empty and she is in matching good moods, thoughts, feelings and emotions.

Otherwise all these words

1. have no meaning

2. will bring only anger and hate in the mind of the girl.

Therefore the words of the boy are not important and beautiful...it is the mind of the girl that matters to perceive the beauty of his words. feelings, emotions and thoughts!!!

Otherwise it is all waste!!!!!

so, take care in life!!

Keep rocking! 

rams