Dear all...here is PART II OF MY PREVIOUS POST ON .....'LIKE' 'LOVE' 'LUST'....
A person in search of love will not be happy with ‘like’ or ‘lust’. That soul will be in the continuous journey throughout its life of searing for that true or divine or devotee kind of love free from lust, wants, needs, expectations, controls, demands etc. Whether that person will get or not?...The biggest challenge is knowledge and awareness of people about all these three words, importance of people and relationships in good physical-mental-social well-being (good health) and their wrong understanding that money and wealth are important for the good health and thereby losing peace and contentment in life.
The biggest problem and challenge in the emotional life of human beings is that they expect abundant and life-long unconditional love from only one person whom they love or obsessed with, and who does not love them, while the entire world is ready to love them. They are always and their entire life behind that one person with crying, begging or serving/sacrificing for that one person for one word, LOVE!!...The end result is that they feel lonely while they are amidst a loving crowd of a world of people!!
Of course, love and physical intimacies emanating out of love are the life line of life and living. A person without this cannot live long on this earth with good physical, mental and social health.
Most of our people live a life and relationship of ‘COMMITMENT’ in family life…e.g in a spouse relationship one looks after the well-being of the other not out of love, but out of social commitment or personal commitment or personal insecurities to look after the other person, with partial love, required to carry out that social responsibility emanating out of the social status of ‘husband’ ‘wife’ etc and we define it wrongly as love as we don’t know the real definition of love and the ocean of knowledge around this one four letter word.
Those people whose brain is healthy, stable and perceives complete emotional security, whose growth and development is well groomed with adequate love and affection and developmental skills and challenges will not be able to feel the feelings of a love seeker. The thinking, emotions, behaviours and all activities of the love seeker will be perceived as weird, unique, unrealistic, incorrect and wrong by the above group of people. Therefore, adequate love and affection, correct grooming technique etc are essential during the initial development of an individual.
Keep rocking....Rams....Health Psychologist....
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