Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...
1. Most of the marital issues are directly or indirectly related to dissatisfaction in physical and mental closeness, romance, sex and related emotional, physical, mental and social issues.
2. For all these issues or behaviours related to this, AROUSAL is important. With arousal comes mood. With mood comes interest.
3. Arousal arises through appearance and PERSONALITY TRAITS/ATTRIBUTES.
4. Appearance can be maintained by a good exercise regime, eating habits and positive thinking habits (thinking only results in behaviours and emotions!)
5. Is there any one who regularly practices yoga and not attractive, not radiating, not healthy and arousing?
6. All of us like being beautiful, romantic and lovable by appearance. Even if an unknown person tell us that we are not beautiful and arousing, we feel upset!
7. Can we be attractive without keeping our lifestyle accordingly or by not doing anything for this consciously?...Is it automatic for entire life time?
8. Is it ok if our spouse/lover gets aroused with some one else and shows all the loving, romantic and sexual behaviours to get close to us and quench their needs?
9. No relationship can become strong, remain healthy for entire life time without proper, complete, open, sufficient communication.
10. Do you think only one intervention (i.e behaviour...e.g only exercising) can keep you arousing and attractive?
11. Do you think being slim only is attractive?...Does slim mean total physical health?...Is mental health not important to be attractive and arousing?
12. Giving reasons for others or to our own selves for not being arousing and attractive like child delivery, ageing, work pressures etc and remaining anxiety struck always be helpful? Are we ready to accept such reasons from the spouse/lover?
The answers that appeared in your mind for the above are the ones we all of us need to do and be arousing, attractive, radiating and healthy-peaceful-happy with high self concept!
Peacefully yours...rams!!
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