"What you need is Love!"

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...ESPECIALLY STUDENTS...I happened to read a  status share in whatsapp saying,

"What you need is Love!"

I feel, it should be "What you need to have in you is Love!" or "What you need to be is Love"

This only means 'Be a resource of unconditional love!'. But be a source of unconditional love only to those who are also resources of unconditional love. Not to parasites, obsession cases and other personality disorder cases who are conditional, demanding, controlling, suspecting and inhuman. There are far too many in the society today, married and unmarried, husbands and lovers, who are excellent bosses, or peers or subordinates or friends or whatever relationship they can strike with, but when it comes to emotional relationship or life long bonding, i find they are only conditional which can lead to loss of peace and other domains of health. So, you land up in a situation of 'going to someone for something, in marriage or out of marriage, and losing everything in the process...mental, physical and social well-being, job, self respect, self confidence, social status and finally life on earth!!'.

Also, i find many trying to attract others through 'physical appearance' which does not last long. In fact, it can be lost in just few days or in a moment also. Also, people only develop crush for physical appearance that crush does not last long and can not lead to peaceful and life long committed relationships. Try to attract by your personality traits, human qualities, by being what you are and who you are, which will remain for life and attract people for life long and committed relationships. A human being can fall for a crush or live without a crush, but can't live without the motherly love from another human being or living organisms. Reality is better than perceived or fantasies in this case.

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!