Dear all...
In
our country the RELATIVES or RELATIONSHIPS always expect us to follow their
directives, protocols, controls etc. Every person has something to order us to
do. So, it becomes boring and ritualistic to be with them.
But
friends are freedom. They enjoy every bit of us and our behaviours. There are
no formalities, controls, directives, orders, rituals and protocols. We feel
free. That is why friendships are fun-ships and not relationships!!
No wonder every married
women after 10 years of living says she spends more time talking to her friends
and enjoys, relishes and feels fresh talking to her friends more than her husband!!
So,
let us have only FRIENDSHIP with every one and not RELATIONSHIPS...e.g father,
mothers, wife, husband, daughter, brother, sister, son, uncle, etc.
F
the protocols, orders, controls, demands, expectations, directives etc!!...Try
and explain to the conventional people to change them but if they don’t change
F them and move on keeping them aside.
If parents are good friends
and not relationships, then automatically the children will always feel like approaching
the parents for all the mentoring, guidance, suggestions etc and feel them to
be their soulmates.
Egoistic parenting with ‘fear-stick’
policy needs to be burried and free thinking and freewill is what we have to
encourage while we encourage and support!!
For more…..log on to www.funnyrams.blogspot.com
rams...health
psychologist...keep rocking!!
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