'in future and now, it appears to be seemingly impossible for one person to live entire life with only one person.'

Dear all...THIS IS FOR PEOPLE BETWEEN 13 TO 30.

The society is becoming multicultural and world shrinking into a global village with oppurtunities for every one to make large number of friendships from a young childhood.

Therefore multiple emotional relationships, especially with opposite sex, becomes the CULTURE and unavoidable.

In the past, population was less, communication media means only meeting in person and talking for which the society was against in the case of relationships with opposite sex, so they could live their entire life with one person with all sorts of communication, sharing of emotions and social interaction with that person only...called husband or wife...i.e person of opposite sex.

so, today and in future every one will have multiple emotional relationships of various kinds with opposite sex. So, it appears to be seemingly impossible for one person to live entire life with only one person.

Therefore, there is a new learning required...accepting that...

1. your spouse/lover will have many close friends with emotional involvement.

2. Unless there is a strong common connection or field of interest or thing to talk, we can not avoid our person spending more time, energy, emotions with the other friends.

3. One can not be possessive.

4. Sexual relationships will decide how long one will live with the other.

5. It is important for every one to know what kind of person he or she is with respect to sexual relationships or socialisation so that they can find their suitable match or live alone without marriage with more friendships.

6. there can be many methods....a. living alone....b. married but living without kids....c. married, kids living away from parents....d. married, producing kids, living together (this requires lots of commitment, understanding in the social environment described above, to live together and rear children, else the multidimensional development of kids will get affected and they will grow out to be with lots of personality disorders. At least living together for about 20 years will be required so that the children become independent and understanding)

7. marrying only for sex is a waste, and one needs to find out and clearly know what he or she wants out of marriage or love or relationship with the opposite sex. The biggest problem is many do not know!...People get bored easily and fast with sex or when there is no common single subject that keeps them attracted for socialisation.

So, it is going to be challenge for all the young adults and adolescents TO LIVE WITH MORE EMOTIONAL RELATIONSHIPS and ACHIEVEMENT ORIENTED, SKILL AND KNOWLEDGE BASED life and day-to-day living. So, life philosophy and wisdom are important to keep physical, mental and social well being, peace, happiness, contentment and fulfillment in life and relationships.

Peacefully yours...rams...