Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL PARENTS...
Almost all parents lose their patience and in frustration start shouting at their children negatively by saying 'You are useless. You can't do even such simple things. You don't have common sense! You are an utter waste on this earth!!' and make them go out of track more and more.
If some one takes it negatively then that person can become a robber, terrorist and all such negative people. The person who takes it positively can become an achiever and that instant/person/place/moment can become an enlightening second.
If you say like this every day to even the best of the person who believes in what you say, then that person can turnout to be the worst!!
No one wants to hear that he or she is worst and no worth.
Even if you tell some unknown on the road 'You are not beautiful. You are ugly!' you can damage a person's day or self concept. We don't want to hear such statements or remarks even from unknown people!
Whereas one positive remark like 'Don't worry. You are the best!!...come, Let us work together!!' can change the life of a person totally. Positive things bring positives. Negative things mostly bring only negatives!!
It is such an easy thing to tell positives and feel peaceful and happy too. But then why our parents hype their emotions soooo much, spend more energy, put in sooo much of efforts to tell negative and spoil the life of the child and curse them too for not being successful???....Our culture is a fantastic culture!!
Peacefully yours...rams...
Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...
"Only people who want to change will change looking at positive behaviors.
No one understood good people like budha or jesus when they lived!
Only people who want to better themselves will change by looking at positive behaviors"
hihihi...these are not mine!!...Comments of my friend!! (winking!!)
Peacefully yours...rams...
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