How to do 'Match-Making' for marriages?

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL COLLEGE STUDENTS...The biggest torture in front for all girl students from their parents' side in our culture is 'MARRIAGE'!

Most of the parents still live in old, do match making, marriages etc in traditional style and see the marriages failing and blame the boy and girl!!

Seeing caste, religion, wealth, matching status, gains for business or their own selves will only result in failures.

So, girls, better make your back bones strong...list down the following...and ask the boys also to write down the following...see if both match...then only put a step forward...

1. What is 'your' Purpose of Marriage?
2. What do you look for in married life?...List down and prioritize.
3. What are your expectations from the other person?
4. What are your needs and wants from the other person?
5. Do you both work at the same place?...Will you both work at different places after marriage?...Do you accept living separately as 'family living' after marriage?...Who will sacrifice or compromise in professional life temporarily or permanently?
6. Who will rear the children?..What are the impacts on their personality in their development?

like this there are many more important things than the old type of matching caste or religion as, today, no one follows the positive things of their caste or religion that gives peace, happiness and good health!

Wealth and status can be gained by the education and hard work by today's youngsters utilizing the oppurtunities, unlike the oldies, who depended on the incoming-girl and her family for everything parasitically!!

So, think and be bold, courageous and communicate...!! Don't lose the golden and only opportunity to live and enjoy this earth!!

Peacefully yours...rams...health psychologist!!