expecting perceptions, understanding and matured behaviours of adult age from children would only result in disappointments, frustration, sadness and anger

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...

At every age and stage we get different maturity...different level of understanding about life, people, social systems (marriage, family, organizations, duties and responsibilities, roles and statuses) relationships etc due to aging...due to the changes in the functioning of our body systems...due to changes in our needs, wants and expectations...due to different perceptions of various things around us...

This type of aged-maturity or understanding or different levels of perceptions of people, things and relationships comes through Shared Learning Experiences or Personal Experiences also...

But the issue is we expect people at younger ages...boys and girls before 13 years of age...or those who are in teens or early adult hood...i.e 20 to 40 years...to behave or perceive or understand things like a 60 year old human being...or older than that...We expect responsible behaviours from young boys and girls to the maturity of senior citizens or middle aged people...

This can happen if ....bodily they have attained that biological age or they have experienced such situations in life of a senior citizen...so that they get the learning experience commensurate with that age...and show understanding, beliefs, perceptions and behaviours like an adult or senior citizen!!

e.g an irresponsible boy in a family can become responsible and take on the role of his father, like a middle aged person, after the sudden death of his father....
Otherwise expecting such responsible behaviours of adult age from children would only result in disappointments, frustration, sadness and anger!!

There are many exceptions too!!...But i expressed about the common behaviours of human beings!!

peacefully yours...rams...psychologist!!