Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL WHO WANT TO DISCUSS LOTS OF THINGS WITH OTHERS...OR...THOSE WHO WANT TO CHANGE OTHERS...
If you are interested in changing yourself, improving, maturing, growing and evolving, then only discuss with people on issues which are not proved (.eg god, religious faiths, caste beliefs etc) where you have a belief...opinion...perception...learnt lessons...etc.
If you are not interested in changing yourself then don't discuss because then you will only land up in argument and spoil your peace, happiness and health!!
If you are interested in changing yourself, improving, maturing, growing and evolving, then only discuss with people on issues which are not proved (.eg god, religious faiths, caste beliefs etc) where you have a belief...opinion...perception...learnt lessons...etc.
If you are not interested in changing yourself then don't discuss because then you will only land up in argument and spoil your peace, happiness and health!!
Ask yourself if you are egoistic person also, If the answer is yes,
then it is better you keep yourself shut, else you will get affected
badly, lose relationships, friends will go away, you will become lonely,
family members will remain isolated to the extent possible and you will
be all alone and lonely on this planet!!
If you are interested in changing yourself, and if you don't have ego, then you are likely to listen to the view points of others also, you are likely to weight the truth or correctness in the views of others also, you are open, you are with open mind, you acknowledge the knowledge, wisdom, learning and experiences of others also...then you are likely to land up in DISCUSSION (NOT ARGUMENT)....therefore, you might create an environment wherein the other person also might throw away the ego and might be ready to listen...understand...accept...and probably might change also...in this process you also will learn and might change for betterment!!
Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!
If you are interested in changing yourself, and if you don't have ego, then you are likely to listen to the view points of others also, you are likely to weight the truth or correctness in the views of others also, you are open, you are with open mind, you acknowledge the knowledge, wisdom, learning and experiences of others also...then you are likely to land up in DISCUSSION (NOT ARGUMENT)....therefore, you might create an environment wherein the other person also might throw away the ego and might be ready to listen...understand...accept...and probably might change also...in this process you also will learn and might change for betterment!!
Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!
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