My father has earnt and left so much of money and wealth for me. So, why should i work and earn?....I have not got my deserved (?) promotion. So, why should i work in my government job?...are these right ways of living?

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...some questions...some answers...

1. My father has earnt and left so much of money and wealth for me. So, why should i work and earn?

2. I have not got my deserved (?) promotion. So, why should i work in my government job?

'Feeling of Acceptance' is a must for being peaceful...happy...to have a healthy mind...to have a satisfied and fulfilled life...to have healthy relationships!!

Absence of feeling of acceptance and present of feeling of rejection...all these affect our life!

Feeling of acceptance for our multiple knowledge...multiple skills...for our age...for our experience...for the status we hold in society...home...organisations...appreciation for our performance and personality traits...all these are vital for a good quality of life and living.

Therefore, being a lazy bum at home...spending time only on pleasures...(anything that creates urges and cravings...anything that is body based...anything that leads to possessiveness...anything that makes us cry or get addicted to or obsessed with...anything that spoils our peace...happiness...good health...social relationships....allllllllllllll these are PLEASURE domain elements!!)...can give only frustration...dissatisfaction...boredom...disappointments...in life!!

Human beings are created by nature to travel...to learn...to acquire multiple knowledge and skills...to meet new people...to live in new cultures...to live amidst all kinds of differences and challenges for adaptations...

So, just get out of home...go to health enhancing places...meet health enhancing people....live in health enhancing cultures...learn health enhancing methods and ways of living....learn...learn...learn...enjoy the learning...while doing education and work...

don't work...when you do something which you don't like...no interest to do....then it becomes a work and you feel stressed...

when the idea of life is to learn new things...meet new people...then nothing is work...everything is only entertainment...enlightenment...fun...learning!

So, people who live like the way in the questions asked above can not be peaceful, happy, healthy and follow a health enhancing life!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!