"Almost all the achievers have lived differently than their parents...relatives...friends...and people around in their culture, village, town, city or religion or caste or sub caste groups"

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL YOUNGSTERS, STUDENTS AND PARENTS...

In our society almost every one is living just a normal 'existence' life. For most of them living the day to day life itself is too difficult, troublesome, scary, threat-filled and painful. Most of them are not achievers. This includes most of our parents also.

If we have to be achievers...if we want to lift the status of the family in multiple dimensions...if we want set a different higher plane of reference of living for our future generations...if we want to be good role models for our children...if we want to be god fathers for many in the society...if we want to set a different standard of life and living...a healthy...peaceful...happy...successful...contented...fulfilled life with fame, authority, power etc...then...

WE HAVE TO LIVE DIFFERENTLY THAN OUR PARENTS...THAN THE PEOPLE AROUND US...THEN OUR RELATIVES....THAN OUR FRIENDS...

OUR DEFINITION OF LIFE AND LIVING...OUR OUTLOOK ABOUT SETTING GOALS...THE PATH OF ACHIEVING THEM...ALL HAVE TO BE DIFFERENT.

People around us may not allow us to live like that. They will say their definition of life and living is the best...nothing better than that...so, they will force you to live like them only. But we need to have stronger spine, patience, to explain them, expose them, make them undergo, feel, experience and change to understand your concept of life and living...so that they are with you to support you!!...Hating, fighting with the significant people of our life...like parents and best friends...is weakening our own assets...whereas making them to feel that success...that peace...that happiness...that new life will change them to a different domain. It takes time, requires patience to deal with them.

But if nothing works out, nothing wrong in saying "I love you! I will look after you!...But i will live as per my definition and will take the future generations of this family to different levels of success, peace, happiness, good health, achievements, fame, power, authority, status, contentment and fulfillment!!" and living differently as per our definitions.

Almost all the achievers have lived differently than their parents...relatives...friends...and people around in their culture, village, town, city or religion or caste or sub caste groups.

But check out if your goals...the path...the method of achieving the goals...all are health enhancing or not. They should not be health compromising!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist.