Pazhagi paar, paasam puriyum...Pagaithhu paar, 'veeram' theriyum!!"

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...

Recently one student shared two tamil lines..."Pazhagi paar, paasam puriyum...Pagaithhu paar, 'veeram' theriyum!!"...many such lines are written by many people with rhyming words for a good feeling of reading!!...Are they correct?...Are they true?...Even if they are correct or true in traditional terms, do they allow people to live in harmony, peace and good health?...I think they have been intentionally or unknowingly created by 'divide and rule' people...Type A personalities...people dominated with personality traits like Aggression!!

The meaning of these two lines is...'Socialise or interact with people, to understand the meaning of love...Be in enemity to see the Aggressive strength in you!'...hope my translation is near-perfect!!😃

In tamil there is a word...'VEERAM'...it is understood through negativities...i.e fight with the enemy...destroy the enemy...you will know your strength...that strength is defined as Veeram...of course, your strength assessment depends upon the strength of the enemy!!

But FIGHTING or DESTROYING or KILLING are negative...the victory...the feeling of pride or goodness or fulfillment or satiation of ego needs that one gets through these negative methods is in the PLEASURE domain. So, they don't lost long. Anger, aggression is always set in the enemy and his people that such negativeness can never result in long term peace, happiness and good health. Hate is negative. All feelings and emotions one gets out of these negative personality traits or thoughts are all damaging to the body, family, society, country and world. Therefore, the behaviours of destruction will also result in destruction of all....everyone...and everything one day!!

LOVE...i.e a set of positive traits...thoughts...plans...strategies...feelings, emotions...activities...will result in everlasting peace, harmony, happiness and good health of individuals, families, societies, countries and the world!!

LOVE IS THE ONLY CONSTRUCTIVE WEAPON IN THE WORLD WHICH CAN MAKE ANY ANIMAL OR GHOST😃ALSO TO CHANGE AND DROP DOWN THE WEAPONS OF DESTRUCTION IN HANDS OR IN MINDS!!

So, veeram or strength or valour is not in muscles, thoughts and activities that result in HATE and DESTRUCTION!!

Veeram is in bringing about changes through positive methods that will bring in everlasting peace, happiness, good health, harmony!!

Of course, if threat is eminent, then destruction is unavoidable!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!