Hai all...THIS IS FOR ALL...
Every one spends lots of time, energy and money in IMPRESSING OTHERS. ("naalu peru nammalai pathhi nalla vithamaa pesanum"..."oorey nammalai viyanthu paakkanum...puhalnthu pesanum"...)...mostly people try to achieve this by spending money lavishly...mostly in a manner that the money is not useful for anyone!!
Truly they are only provoking JEALOUSY in others. And they feel good, proud when others feel jealousy about them. This is fake and truly every one will only talk bad and ill when the person is not there in their front.
Jealousy arises out of negative comparisons which can not give peace.
Positive comparisons which results in positive thoughts, positive emotions and positive behaviours towards becoming a good and responsible human being is always good!!
But mostly comparisons are negative, jealousy and therefore people only lose their peace!!
Here both the people get affected in a long run!!...The feeling of goodness is only short lived, fake and goes off resulting in a loss!!
Instead if some one tries to be a good human being...helpful to others...i.e usefulness value (not nuisance value!)...then that person is remembered for long and people get impressed in a positive way. The money, time and energy can be spent by them in improving their humanness, knowledge, skill and wisdom.
So, let us not compare...not feel jealousy...not try to impress through fake methods...not try to make others feel jealousy about us!
Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!
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