If we keep our relationships within boundaries then there is no problem. Is it not?

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...

Qn: If we keep our relationships within boundaries then there is no problem. Is it not?

Ans: Yess!!...Very true!!...The problems occur for self and others when people are not able to keep their relationships within boundaries. The boundary is the state where all the people involved in relationships are in peace, happy and harmonious. It requires....1. healthy mind...2. less dependencies...3. right understanding of life, people, relationships, human nature...4. right perception of socialization and social rules and regulations.

So, when the mind is not healthy, when the life style is not healthy, when the hormonal and neurotransmitter secretions are not stable or healthy, when the dependencies in various dimensions of life are more, when people do not understand the life healthily, when they do not understand the human life, human nature, nature and its relationship with human beings correctly, when they don't understand the dynamics of relationships correctly, when they don't understand socialization and issues related to socialization correctly then all the personnel involved in the relationships suffer.

So, too much of love and dependencies beyond boundaries between wife and husband, sister and brother, parents and children, between lovers, between friends....all result in pains, loss of peace, happiness, health and harmony!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!