Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...
Almost all the problems in life of an individual is due to the personality traits of the same person.
It does not allow the person to live peacefully and happily even if the individual is living alone. If such a person associates with another individual then the life gets more spoiled for both.
So, more than the health spoiling habits, it is the personality issues that kill everything of a person and those around.
Neuroticism is one of the Big Five higher-order personality traits in the study of psychology.
Individuals who score high on neuroticism are more likely than average to be moody and to experience such feelings as anxiety, worry, fear, anger, frustration, envy, jealousy, guilt, depressed mood, and loneliness.
People who are neurotic respond worse to stressors and are more likely to interpret ordinary situations as threatening and minor frustrations as hopelessly difficult. They are often self-conscious and shy, and they may have trouble controlling urges and delaying gratification.
People with high neuroticism indexes are at risk for the development and onset of common mental disorders such as mood disorders, anxiety disorders, and substance use disorder.
So, be careful if you find such people to remain away from them. People who are neurotic has to take the help of therapists and counselors if they are not able to change by themselves.
But Indian parents who feel that 'every one born has to get married and live a family life' will dispose off (their head-ache) such children to others expecting that the spouse will change them, which is not possible.
It only spoils the life of another boy or a girl. Disorders can be corrected only by therapists. So, beware and in case you find such people, help them to make them aware of their issues.
They may not agree saying they don't have any bad habit and they are perfectly alright.
But personality disorders are more dangerous than bad habits or life style diseases!!...
Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!
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