THIS IS FOR ALL PARENTS AND TEACHERS...(AND TO STUDENTS TO SHARE THE SAME WITH THEIR SIGNIFICANT PEOPLE AT HOME AND IN THEIR LIVES)

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL PARENTS AND TEACHERS...(AND TO STUDENTS TO SHARE THE SAME WITH THEIR SIGNIFICANT PEOPLE AT HOME AND IN THEIR LIVES)

the attached pic says in Tamil "Verupporin vimarsanangale vetriyaalargalin vetri ragasiyam!!'

i.e 'the criticisms (negative criticisms and burning words) of those who hate us or criticize us (may be loving too...but the words and emotions thrown are hatred...how does it matter whether it is love or hate inside...in fact both should be same...that is what is called positive motivation!!) is the secret of success of achievers!!'

Sadly most of the achievers in this culture are through only negative motivational methods...as parenting and teaching are not positive here in this culture...and we boast that our culture is the best...most of the achievers here are totally burnt by the time they become achievers, not because of the rough patches they have to cross through, but due to the burning words of the people around...mainly due to the parents, teachers and significant people of their lives...whereas it should have been other way...the loving, encouraging and supporting words of all these people should have made them to blossom like a lotus...instead of emerging out to be a tandoori chicken at the end of the game!!

So, let us be positive parents, teachers, friends, siblings and lovers to create lotuses and not roasted chicken!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!