What is important...language or life?

ha.haa.haa..it is a debatable topic...1. whether IQ improvement at the cost of not becoming proficient enough in languages required for global living and working is to be pursued?...2. On an average, Indian children are not good in English, but have high IQ, and are not able to get jobs or grow in their profession due to this lack of effective English oral and written communication skills...primarily due to this mother tongue at homes...3. Saving culture is important or saving our life is important?...4. Anyway, mother tongue will come on its own even if one of the parent speaks...but English never comes without a conscious effort...5. language comes through more talking and writing as it is a Skill, and children talk to their parents maximum during the childhood, in a traditional family not ruled by screens and gadgets....in light of all the above i strongly recommend one parent talking in mother tongue and another parent talking in English...Especially mother in English as she speaks more and children listen to the mother more...So, let the children get the Father tongue (with all the issues of tamil, malayali accent etc)!!😜...Hope i have added some value to the issue!!