hai friends...how are we?
today is my birth day! 02 Mar 1965!
i never remembered birthdays till my children started reminding me!
i actually feel with every birthday i am getting more and more younger!...more and more bubbly!
i define life to be happiness. There can be many difficulties in life which we might have to cross over, but why to cry and cross?...we can cross them happily too!
during my early days of work, i used to whirl from morning to evening and when i come back to my office in the evening at about 6 pm i used to be worried with so many problems in front. That is the time for the construction workers to go home and they cross my office on the road behind. With full of giggles, happiness and what not! I used to wonder looking at them 'Hey rams! you are well educated and nicely employed. Are you happy?...look at these people...they don't know if their next meal is assured!...they don't worry about the next day, next moment and just enjoy the present moment!...they are enjoying the present!
This happened not just once. It was an every day affair!
Till date i have never seen any construction worker serious, sad etc. They are always witty, laughing and cheerful!
How many highly placed managers and administrators are happy?
Where does the happiness lie?
in...
Money?...are all the rich people happy?
Wealth?...are all those who have great wealth happy?
Power?...are all those politicians and administrators happy?
Official position?...are all CEOs and GMs and Directors happy?
Education?...are all highly educated happy?
friends?
significant people at home?
It is just in our mind, a state of mind. Who is not having problems or difficulties?...it is just another day...it is just another phase...it will also pass through the way they have passed through in the past.
when we are burried or burnt, it is just our bare body or the clothes we are wearing will come with us. No one and nothing.
so why to worry? why to cry? why to feel burdened? why to think we have become old?...why to think about death?...why to think about diseases?
we are born here to be happy. To be with nature. To enjoy the nature. To enjoy the morning, dew, sounds of birds, soft chilly breeze, the fresh oxygen, the rising sun, the beetles, the flowers, the mist, the rain, the drizzles, the snow fall, to listen to the silence, to listen to the sounds of water flowing in a stream, to watch the fishes, to watch the domestic animals, to play with them...wofffffffffffffffffff there are sooooooooooooooooooooooooooo many things in life to enjoy!...why to quarrel with issues, people and consider everything as burden, responsibility and worry-some.
So, guys and gals, let us enjoy on this day and every day and every moment!
here is a mail about one of my experience which i had sent to my friends long back...read on....for those who do not understand tamil i have narrated the episode in english at the end...
To: MIT-36THBATCH-ITIANS@yahoogroups.com; PSGBSC81-84@yahoogroups.com
From: MRAMASUBRAMANIAN1@YAHOO.CO.IN
Date: Thu, 17 Jun 2010 20:28:49 +0530
Subject: [MIT-36THBATCH-ITIANS] பெண் பாவம்
டேய் கண்ணுகளா!....ரெண்டு நாளைக்கு முன்னாடி கோவை காந்திபுரம் பஸ் ஸ்டாண்ட் லே ஒரு ஸீன் பாத்தேன்!....மனசை பெசஞ்சு போட்டுடுச்சுடா!....அதை உங்க கூட கொஞ்சம் பேசி அசை போடலாம்ன்னு பாத்தேன்.....!
பஸ் ஸ்டான்ட்லே நான் போக வேண்டிய பஸ்சு நின்னுகிட்டு இருந்துச்சு... ஐயா வெளியே பாத்துகிட்டு இருந்தேனா .....உள்ளே உக்காந்து கிட்டு....ஒரு இருபந்தஞ்சு வயசு பையன் நின்னுகிட்டு இருந்தான்....எதோ கடைலே வேலை செய்வான் போல....சொத்துக்கு சாவார மாதிரி தான் இருந்தான்....ஆனா ஒரு ஸ்பெஷல் occasion க்கு டிரஸ் பண்ணின மாதிரி இருந்தான்....முகத்துலே ஒரு சின்ன சந்தோசம்....திடீர்ன்னு எங்கே இருந்தோ ஒரு பொண்ணு அவன் கிட்டே வந்தா...அவளும் எதோ கடை லே வேலை செய்யற பொண்ணு மாதிரி தான் இருந்தா....dressed for a special occasion.... i could make out that she is poor but has tried her best to put up a good show....சாப்பாட்டுக்கே கஷ்டம் என்பது உடலில் தெரிந்தது....மல்லீப்பூவு.....நிறைய வளையல்கள்....கழுத்துலே புது பாசி.....காதுலே புது இருபது ரூவாய் ஜிமிக்கி....கன்னு நிறைய காதல்....சந்தோசம்....எதிர்பார்ப்பு....வெளியே காதலன் கூடே போகும் திடுட்டு சந்தோசம்....i liked those emotions.... .she said something to him....he gave a routine response.... i could see her talking with interest.... he replying with less involvement. ....அவள் கெஞ்சுகிறாள்.....i could see sorrow spreading over her face....she looks at eternity...thinks for a second....tells something... .he gets angry and says something... .she is requesting.. .begging. ..i could see tears in her eyes....about to fall down.....he does not give up....finally she covers her face with both the hands and walks off fast.....from nowhere one of that boy's friend appears....both of them talk happily.....ஹ்ம்ம்....பஸ் ஸ்டார்ட் ஆயிடுச்சு....அந்த பொண்ணுக்கு என்ன ஆச்சு....கடைசி லே ரெண்டு பெரும் சந்தோஷமா வெளியே போனாங்களா....யாராசுக்கும் தெரிஞ்ச சொல்லுங்களேன்...ப்ளீஸ்...ப்ளீஸ்...ப்ளீஸ்.....
i just felt that moment.....என்ன ஆம்பளை டா இவன்.....அவ எவ்வளவு கனவுகளோட முந்தின நாள் தூக்கம் இல்லாமே...பாத்து பாத்து அலங்காரம் செஞ்சுட்டு வந்து இருக்கா.....even though she was poor, she has put in her best to look beautiful and make her lover happy....இப்பிடி ஒரு சின்ன பொண்ணோட மனசை நோக அடிச்சுட்டானே...பாவம் அந்த பொண்ணு....அப்பிடீன்னு தோனுச்சு....
ஹ்ம்ம்.....பாவம்டா.....
பெண் பாவம் வேணாம்டா.....
ராம்ஸ்
(for the people who can not understand tamil...some time back i was at the bus stand...was sitting inside the bus...and watching outside as there was some time for it to start...there was a guy outside...may be 25 years old...probably is working in a small shop...poor and probably struggling for even three meals...but he appeared to have dressed for a special occasion...happiness on face...suddenly one girl came to him from nowhere...she also appeared like working in a small shop...dressed for a special occasion...i could make out that she is poor but has tried her best to put up a good show...we can make out from her body that she struggles for three meals a day...i could see lots of bangles, flowers, new neck lace, ear studs...i am sure she has spent her 10 days salary for this occasion...eyes full of love...happiness...anxiety filled heart...the thrill of having a date with her lover...i liked those emotions...she said something to him...he gave a routine response...i could see her talking with interest...he replying with less involvement...she is begging...i could see sorrow spreading over her face...she looks at eternity..thinks for a second...tells something... .he gets angry and says something... .she is requesting.. .begging. ..i could see tears in her eyes....about to fall down.....he does not give up....finally she covers her face with both the hands and walks off fast.....from nowhere one of that boy's friend appears....both of them talk happily.....hmmm...bus started...what happened to that girl?...whether they both went happily for their date?...does any one know?....
i just felt that moment.....what a bloody guy he is!.....that poor girl must have dreamt about the date so much and must have done all that make overs with so much of care, love and affection....even though she was poor, she has put in her best to look beautiful and make her lover happy....hmm...he punctured the heart of that little girl....poor girl!)
keep rocking guys and gals...bye...
rams
today is my birth day! 02 Mar 1965!
i never remembered birthdays till my children started reminding me!
i actually feel with every birthday i am getting more and more younger!...more and more bubbly!
i define life to be happiness. There can be many difficulties in life which we might have to cross over, but why to cry and cross?...we can cross them happily too!
during my early days of work, i used to whirl from morning to evening and when i come back to my office in the evening at about 6 pm i used to be worried with so many problems in front. That is the time for the construction workers to go home and they cross my office on the road behind. With full of giggles, happiness and what not! I used to wonder looking at them 'Hey rams! you are well educated and nicely employed. Are you happy?...look at these people...they don't know if their next meal is assured!...they don't worry about the next day, next moment and just enjoy the present moment!...they are enjoying the present!
This happened not just once. It was an every day affair!
Till date i have never seen any construction worker serious, sad etc. They are always witty, laughing and cheerful!
How many highly placed managers and administrators are happy?
Where does the happiness lie?
in...
Money?...are all the rich people happy?
Wealth?...are all those who have great wealth happy?
Power?...are all those politicians and administrators happy?
Official position?...are all CEOs and GMs and Directors happy?
Education?...are all highly educated happy?
friends?
significant people at home?
It is just in our mind, a state of mind. Who is not having problems or difficulties?...it is just another day...it is just another phase...it will also pass through the way they have passed through in the past.
when we are burried or burnt, it is just our bare body or the clothes we are wearing will come with us. No one and nothing.
so why to worry? why to cry? why to feel burdened? why to think we have become old?...why to think about death?...why to think about diseases?
we are born here to be happy. To be with nature. To enjoy the nature. To enjoy the morning, dew, sounds of birds, soft chilly breeze, the fresh oxygen, the rising sun, the beetles, the flowers, the mist, the rain, the drizzles, the snow fall, to listen to the silence, to listen to the sounds of water flowing in a stream, to watch the fishes, to watch the domestic animals, to play with them...wofffffffffffffffffff there are sooooooooooooooooooooooooooo many things in life to enjoy!...why to quarrel with issues, people and consider everything as burden, responsibility and worry-some.
So, guys and gals, let us enjoy on this day and every day and every moment!
here is a mail about one of my experience which i had sent to my friends long back...read on....for those who do not understand tamil i have narrated the episode in english at the end...
To: MIT-36THBATCH-ITIANS@yahoogroups.com; PSGBSC81-84@yahoogroups.com
From: MRAMASUBRAMANIAN1@YAHOO.CO.IN
Date: Thu, 17 Jun 2010 20:28:49 +0530
Subject: [MIT-36THBATCH-ITIANS] பெண் பாவம்
டேய் கண்ணுகளா!....ரெண்டு நாளைக்கு முன்னாடி கோவை காந்திபுரம் பஸ் ஸ்டாண்ட் லே ஒரு ஸீன் பாத்தேன்!....மனசை பெசஞ்சு போட்டுடுச்சுடா!....அதை உங்க கூட கொஞ்சம் பேசி அசை போடலாம்ன்னு பாத்தேன்.....!
பஸ் ஸ்டான்ட்லே நான் போக வேண்டிய பஸ்சு நின்னுகிட்டு இருந்துச்சு... ஐயா வெளியே பாத்துகிட்டு இருந்தேனா .....உள்ளே உக்காந்து கிட்டு....ஒரு இருபந்தஞ்சு வயசு பையன் நின்னுகிட்டு இருந்தான்....எதோ கடைலே வேலை செய்வான் போல....சொத்துக்கு சாவார மாதிரி தான் இருந்தான்....ஆனா ஒரு ஸ்பெஷல் occasion க்கு டிரஸ் பண்ணின மாதிரி இருந்தான்....முகத்துலே ஒரு சின்ன சந்தோசம்....திடீர்ன்னு எங்கே இருந்தோ ஒரு பொண்ணு அவன் கிட்டே வந்தா...அவளும் எதோ கடை லே வேலை செய்யற பொண்ணு மாதிரி தான் இருந்தா....dressed for a special occasion.... i could make out that she is poor but has tried her best to put up a good show....சாப்பாட்டுக்கே கஷ்டம் என்பது உடலில் தெரிந்தது....மல்லீப்பூவு.....நிறைய வளையல்கள்....கழுத்துலே புது பாசி.....காதுலே புது இருபது ரூவாய் ஜிமிக்கி....கன்னு நிறைய காதல்....சந்தோசம்....எதிர்பார்ப்பு....வெளியே காதலன் கூடே போகும் திடுட்டு சந்தோசம்....i liked those emotions.... .she said something to him....he gave a routine response.... i could see her talking with interest.... he replying with less involvement. ....அவள் கெஞ்சுகிறாள்.....i could see sorrow spreading over her face....she looks at eternity...thinks for a second....tells something... .he gets angry and says something... .she is requesting.. .begging. ..i could see tears in her eyes....about to fall down.....he does not give up....finally she covers her face with both the hands and walks off fast.....from nowhere one of that boy's friend appears....both of them talk happily.....ஹ்ம்ம்....பஸ் ஸ்டார்ட் ஆயிடுச்சு....அந்த பொண்ணுக்கு என்ன ஆச்சு....கடைசி லே ரெண்டு பெரும் சந்தோஷமா வெளியே போனாங்களா....யாராசுக்கும் தெரிஞ்ச சொல்லுங்களேன்...ப்ளீஸ்...ப்ளீஸ்...ப்ளீஸ்.....
i just felt that moment.....என்ன ஆம்பளை டா இவன்.....அவ எவ்வளவு கனவுகளோட முந்தின நாள் தூக்கம் இல்லாமே...பாத்து பாத்து அலங்காரம் செஞ்சுட்டு வந்து இருக்கா.....even though she was poor, she has put in her best to look beautiful and make her lover happy....இப்பிடி ஒரு சின்ன பொண்ணோட மனசை நோக அடிச்சுட்டானே...பாவம் அந்த பொண்ணு....அப்பிடீன்னு தோனுச்சு....
ஹ்ம்ம்.....பாவம்டா.....
பெண் பாவம் வேணாம்டா.....
ராம்ஸ்
(for the people who can not understand tamil...some time back i was at the bus stand...was sitting inside the bus...and watching outside as there was some time for it to start...there was a guy outside...may be 25 years old...probably is working in a small shop...poor and probably struggling for even three meals...but he appeared to have dressed for a special occasion...happiness on face...suddenly one girl came to him from nowhere...she also appeared like working in a small shop...dressed for a special occasion...i could make out that she is poor but has tried her best to put up a good show...we can make out from her body that she struggles for three meals a day...i could see lots of bangles, flowers, new neck lace, ear studs...i am sure she has spent her 10 days salary for this occasion...eyes full of love...happiness...anxiety filled heart...the thrill of having a date with her lover...i liked those emotions...she said something to him...he gave a routine response...i could see her talking with interest...he replying with less involvement...she is begging...i could see sorrow spreading over her face...she looks at eternity..thinks for a second...tells something... .he gets angry and says something... .she is requesting.. .begging. ..i could see tears in her eyes....about to fall down.....he does not give up....finally she covers her face with both the hands and walks off fast.....from nowhere one of that boy's friend appears....both of them talk happily.....hmmm...bus started...what happened to that girl?...whether they both went happily for their date?...does any one know?....
i just felt that moment.....what a bloody guy he is!.....that poor girl must have dreamt about the date so much and must have done all that make overs with so much of care, love and affection....even though she was poor, she has put in her best to look beautiful and make her lover happy....hmm...he punctured the heart of that little girl....poor girl!)
keep rocking guys and gals...bye...
rams
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