THIS IS FOR ALL IN WHATSAPP AND OTHER SOCIAL GROUPS...

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL IN WHATSAPP AND OTHER SOCIAL GROUPS...

Any issue where differences of opinion can be there, it is better not to post in a group, as it generally brings only egoistic arguments, and unpleasantness!!...

When friendships and people are more important than our opinions and beliefs, it is better not to discuss all those!!...

Also, where we don't have control, sensing and processing such data or information is of no use, brings a spoiled day and health, and only wastes our valuable life time on this earth and we lose people and relationships!!

Our media is full of such news!!

Of course, there can be a view that our views might change and make others to grow...also we can grow and improve when we listen to the ideas, opinions and suggestion of others...True...this can happen as long as our purpose is to learn, we are ready to discuss and not argue, we have open mind to listen to others to change and improve.

Also we can say that it can be a best method to vent out our feelings. Why to sense, process and get agitated?...If at all we sense, then it is better to think for a while, as to, what i can do for this?...We can just do that and leave it.

Participating in a discussion is good. But we should have lots of time and energy. Participating in an argument is a waste.

It is better to limit and spend value time for positive thoughts, positive feelings and positive behaviours. It is better to spend more time on self development to become policy makers in organisations and society, so that we can bring in some positive change.

Though, in a society, discussions are better methods of venting out our feelings, aggression, and positive outcomes. Otherwise the energy built up in a system can result in a volcanic eruption and result in a major damage one day!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!