Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL PARENTS AND STUDENTS...
Mostly the parents who are born, brought up and living in the birth place try to live a community or relatives centric life. Even if they know that it may not give them much of growth etc, they are scared, not interested in any change, and still make compromises and sacrifices and live as per the likes of their community/relatives circles.
Most of them force their children also to live the same type of life. Children feel this is idiotic and get highly stressed, as they feel it is obsolete and redundant type of life which no more exists. So, a war goes on between the children and parents. In to day's world of whatsapp and facebook when they see their classmates doing very well in all domains of life, they feel frustrated and suicidal.
The point is If we have to grow in wealth, health, global fame, power, authority, achievements, money, happy relationships etc more than our parents, then we have to live differently!!...Our definition of life, day to day living, hobbies, marriage, family, relationships, professional life etc has to be different from that of our parents!!!
Our parents might have taken to greater levels compared to our grand parents. But if we have to go further, then we have to further change everything mentioned above.
So, the crux is....
If we live like our parents, then we will either reach only their levels or less than that!!
WITHOUT A CHANGE, CHANGE IS NOT POSSIBLE!!
Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!
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