THIS IS FOR ALL...VERY VERY IMPORTANT POST...

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...VERY VERY IMPORTANT POST...

All of us have relationships of various kinds.

Without relationships with people we can not live here.

But all our relationships are based on BODY and MIND.

Basically based on needs, wants and expectations related to these two.

Body grows, ages, matures, evolves continuously and therefore its needs and intensities keep changing continuously. It also wants variety. If we connect with people for this obviously the relationship will get strained every day, no peace, no happiness, no good health. Life will be hell.

Mind also keeps changing from childhood. Playful, to responsible, to child production and rearing to maturing etc. Therefore, the moods and interests required for accomplishing these roles and responsibilities only will appear at different times and it may not match with that of the other person in types and intensities. Therefore, if we go in relationship with a person for mind needs, committed or uncommitted, then also it will be stressful, no peace, no life etc.

So, therefore, all relationships based on body and mind are sure to break one day at some level some where.

The relationships are to be beyond these two ...i.e body and mind...based on some energy level match and one should be able to feel and know that....he or she will be happy even without that person in physical form, near by, without any needs, wants and expectations, and we only feel to help, care and support that person unconditionally, devotionally and giving all the freedom under the sky!!

So, find a person and live with that person.

Otherwise all the relationships that you keep forming in life again and again will result in failures only!!

WE NEED TO KNOW THAT ALL RELATIONSHIPS ARE TO BE FORMED ONLY FOR SPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENT AND NOT FOR SATIATION OF NEEDS AND WANTS OF BODY AND MIND!!...ANY RELATIONSHIP FORMED FOR SPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENT WILL SUSTAIN FOR LIFE TIME, WILL ONLY KEEP GROWING, WITHOUT ANY DECREASE IN INTENSITY!! IT WILL GIVE OUT OF THE WORLD EXPERIENCE EVERY MOMENT WITH THAT PERSON FOR ENTIRE LIFE TIME. BUT ANY RELATIONSHIP FORMED IN THE USUAL MANNER FOR BODY AND MIND WILL, AND, IS SURE TO BREAKKKKKK!!!

Peacefully yours...rams...psychologist!!