THIS IS FOR ALL...SPECIALLY FOR THOSE ABOVE 40 YEARS OF AGE.

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...SPECIALLY FOR THOSE ABOVE 40 YEARS OF AGE...

Our people generally stabilize with their definitions of life and living, what is right, wrong, good and bad etc by about 40 years of age and thereafter they don't want to change. They become almost rigid. Unless doctor tells 'You are in danger! You can't live any further unless you change your life style in thoughts, feelings and behaviours!!'.

They only want fun and do not want to hear anything which is different from their convictions. They also feel insecure and worried if the people at home will change and leave them or start creating discomfort at home. So, generally they protect them also and ensure that nothing different enters the home, or their ears or eyes. They feel "After lots of struggles i have convinced my wife/husband and children about life and living! I don't want any one to change them!!'

So, what happens to them?

After 40 they don't grow at all...in knowledge, wisdom, money, wealth, power, fame, authority, maturity, evolution...everything!!
They waste their rest of nearly 40+ years of life!!

They perceive everything and everyone as threats!!

They are always scared and worried!!

They become possessive!!

They are anxiety struck always!!

They are always stressed!!

They are always worried about the unknown future!!

They just sit in the easy chair at home and keep criticizing people at home, in society, politics, relatives, friends...everything and every one!!

They are rigid and have high expectations, needs, wants, demands etc from every one at home and around!!

They even threaten every one!!

They create a suffocating and toxic environment around them for self and others!!

They make their life and others life a hell!!

They are slaves to their own selves and slave others too!!

They don't know the meaning of freedom and feel what they enjoy is freedom!!

All these become a perfect breeding ground for diseases, ailments and disorders of their body, mind and social relationships!!

They become lonely and keep blaming others for their state, land up in old age homes and mental asylums.

They even don't like reading posts like this and perceive people like me as threats for their life and family!!

There are sooooo many who live like this in our families and society!!

So, the crux is...

Those who change with the changes around in all domains enjoy freedom, live happily, peacefully, get the love and affection of others, are not thrown in old age homes and mental asylums, spend their rest of their life meaningfully, allow others also to grow, see that their family tree grows in real sense and define the perfect way of living, meaningful family and leave a perfect and great culture for their off-springs and progeny!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!