Don't tell others their disorders or issues...just apply corrections using positive methods....

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...

We are all the time physically or mentally or socially connected with people. We find adaptability problems with people. We call them as bad or wrong or incorrect thoughts or feelings or habits or culture or behaviours.

We keep pointing out to the other individual. We keep telling that person...'you have a disorder!...You are wrong!...You are at fault!!...You are not correct!!...You have problems!!'...we repeatedly tell all these and wound that person. We also tell with anger, frustration, strong negative emotions...feeling etc...which further wounds them, reduces self confidence, they get depressed, some people don't want to change, they resist the change, they even challenge 'I will not change!!..Let me see, how you can change me!'...What we wanted is that the person should change for his or her own betterment...if not for us...but this method of pointing out, negative methods of taking out our frustration and anger only makes the other person stubborn, resist and not to change...

So, our aim is not achieved...the other person gets sick...goes down...depressed...not ready to change...resists...problem gets complicated and worse...

so, the best method is...

1. Identify the issues which affect them or us

2. Don't tell them their problem

3. Think or identify the correction method. Most of the methods people recommend or our culture teaches has some other negative side effect. So, we need to identify the positive correction or therapy method. And apply it.

4. This makes sure that the person is changed or changes without his or her knowledge.

5. All the problems listed above will not happen.