Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL PRESENT AND FUTURE HUSBANDS AND WIVES...
In olden days when the girls were suppressed, without education and self supporting knowledge and skills, the job of men was to just keep them inside the four walls to meet their personal, family and social needs. And this they could effortlessly as the family members, relatives and social unwritten laws supported them.
Today when the girls are self supportive, educated, earning, liberated they are not dependent on men...even the married women are forced to live separately (as the husbands are working elsewhere) taking the burden of father also in family responsibilities...looking at all these some even ask 'why to marry?'...what do you get out of marriage?...Money?...they have and can earn!!...Social security?...When one has to live all alone with the children then where is the social security?...Physical intimacies and sexual need satisfaction?...Where do you get when you stay alone...it is only fights over the phone!!...So, they say it is only additional responsibilities...pain...and a way of curtailing freedom!!
Many tell me they were free, happy, peaceful and enjoying their life before marriage and are only suffering after marriage!!
Under these circumstances men can not still follow the old philosophy of KEEPING THE BODY INSIDE THE FOUR WALLS...Now they have to really really think about HOW TO LIVE INSIDE THE HEART OF THEIR WIFE!!...It is not an easy task. All the strategies, beliefs, methods employed by ancestors will not work out. That is why men crib that the old system is better as they could get everything in their life without much of efforts and they resist this change...But NATURE RULES...EVOLUTION RULES...!!
So, when kaliyug matures, good things are only happening with respect to equality of gender and thinking about how to live in the mind is a healthy, positive and welcome change!!
Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!
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