Learning to fail is also important in life!!

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL PRESENT AND FUTURE PARENTS...

In this competitive world, we have in-grilled in the minds of children that THEY ARE BORN TO WIN IN EVERYTHING...THEY CAN NOT FAIL...whether it is education, or games or any competitions anywhere...!!

End result is they become adamant that they have to win!!...And when they face the first failure...they totally break...as they don't have the strength to face the failure!!

IS THERE ANY ONE ON EARTH WHO HAS NOT FACED FAILURE AT LEAST ONCE AND IN ONE DOMAIN OF LIFE AND LIVING??

So, failure is as normal as success...equal probability in the present and future uncertainties in all domains...

So, there is an urgent need to make the children to face small failures too which does not cost much in life, so that they are able to cope up, know the value of health, happiness, peace, life, people and relationships more than money, wealth, winning in competitions...!!

If this is not taught, then they collapse miserably when they face their first failure in life!!

If it happens to be in love...or marriage then the damages faced or perceived by them is grave!!....They are unable to accept this failure...so they are adamant and animal like here too saying 'I will win by any means here also!!' and land up in doing all things which can not give them peace!!

SO, LET US LEARN TO FACE FAILURES ALSO...WITHOUT MUCH OF LOSS AND DAMAGE!!

LET US TEACH THIS TO OUR CHILDREN TOO!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!